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Am I in the wrong? Should I be more overprotective of her? Idk I'm just not the type of guy to care about these kind of things. Girls, is your boyfriend having too much trust in you a turn off?
I know that while I'm fiercely independent, even I have been turned off at utter lack of jealousy. It felt like she didn't care, although I was wrong: I later found out she was jealous but she was acting cool.
I've both received and given feedback that a teensy bit of subtle protectiveness is preferable to none at all.
I suppose every girl wants to feel desired, which is why some who don't get attention still flirt in relationships, well some hoes are gonna hoe but it applies to others. If you're too relaxed she might not feel a sense of security? Like you don't care that much and could drop her immediately.
Depends on the girl, i'd say girls that hate control and are more liberal are probably likely to find it infuriating and think you are their dad, whereas girls who are more traditional and like authority probably derive a sense of security from having a domineering partner.
Telling anyone what they can/can't do or who to follow on social media are signs of controlling behaviour. Don't resort to that and perhaps ask why your gf has this warped view of controlling behaviour being the same as protective.
You shouldn't need to protect her. You protect children - unless you're dating a child, she has to learn and be naive by herself.