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    I've talked to this girl on fb 4 times before. But now I just find it hard to start an interesting convo? I don't know why I don't have the confidence to message her even though I've done it before. I last messaged her 2 weeks ago.
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    Just say hi.
    I know what you mean though; I hate to be the one starting a conversation.
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    (Original post by hxfsxh)
    Just say hi.
    I know what you mean though; I hate to be the one starting a conversation.
    saying just "hi" seems weird to me; I rather say something more but don't what.

    Hopefully she wants to talk to me as well but doesn't wanna start the convo 😬
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    Don't know what^
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    saying just "hi" seems weird to me; I rather say something more but don't what.

    Hopefully she wants to talk to me as well but doesn't wanna start the convo 😬
    Well maybe you could go for the "hey, how are you, we haven't spoken in a while"
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    Yeah don't just say 'Hi"..its awkward then! Say something like 'hey..so I was out (doing something) the other day and it reminded me we haven't spoken for a while, what you been up to?'
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    say this it works:

    (Original post by me)
    YOOOOOOOO FAMALAMALAMADINGDONGGGGGG LONG TIME BRO? HOW U BEEN G? ALL GUD ALL GUUD? uno yh its been baare long since mandems been reppin each otha bro i was thinkin meertup but thata mananana LONG TING LONG TING sO how abwt jus talkin on here yh id be BUTTTERRING if i said i didnt wanna talk
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    It does help if the person you're talking to can also hold a decent conversation, otherwise you'll get more response from a wall.

    So, is she actually interested in talking to you (long answers, she questions you) or does she only give one word/short answers?

    Use information that she's told you about herself to talk about.
    Eg, "I like Cats"
    "Hey, I remember you saying you liked cats, I saw this hilarious video and thought of you - have you seen it before?"
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    It's better to talk in person I hate messaging on fb, why not ask her out for coffee?
 
 
 
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