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how far 2 go without being slaggish?

ryt

well a guy im involved with(about 2 months ish) MAY be coming around to my house next week.we havnt spend time alone in 1 month and we both are crazy about each other..i don't know how far to go when he comes around.i don't know what to do...if u understand me..like after kissing etc without seeming too "slaggish"..we both don't want sex yet but i dnt kno how far is far without full sex?

im baffled

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Reply 1

Zerforax

How can you seem like a slag if your having fun/sex with a bf of 2 months...?
Or am i reading this wrong? :s-smilie:

Reply 2

generalebriety

Why treat sex like a textbook thing? Just do whatever feels right at the time. Why would a boyfriend think you were a "slag"? That makes no sense whatsoever, if you both want sex then have sex, don't just hold back for the sake of not "being slaggish", but if you genuinely don't then don't and go as far as you feel is appropriate.

Reply 3

Louise88

You do what feels comfortable at the time. You have both agreed that maybe you two aren't ready to have sex yet, that's fine but do whatever you two want, don't take it further than you're comfortable with. As long as you two are both comfortable with something, then you have no need to worry about being a "slag".

Reply 4

randomgirl

Do what you want and what feels comfortable to both of you.

Reply 5

I would say definitely have sex with him and 15 of his mates in every fashion, position and costume you can think of, but no more than 15, 16 at once is the tipping point where you become a slag. :smile:

Reply 6

username94219

You do what you feel happy doing. There is no right or wrong personally. Its up to you both

Reply 7

Paperfolders57

Really is nobodies business other than the girls ,where shes had sex with partners!

Reply 8

hippieglitter

if he is your boyfriend then nothing should seem slaggish.

Reply 9

Kate.

What the hell, you're seeing him & you've been with him 2 months...do what you want?

Some people are way too concerned about what others think.

I slept with my current boyfriend (and my last, actually) before we started 'officially'/properly seeing each other. Worked out fine, I don't think I'm a slag and no one (as far as I'm aware) thinks it either.

Reply 10

Cromulent

Christ, I thought this was going to be a "should I sleep with him on the first date?" thread.

Reply 11

DaChronik

sarforaz

How can you seem like a slag if your having fun/sex with a bf of 2 months...?
Or am i reading this wrong? :s-smilie:

Thats what I thought... Surely anything goes... Hes your boyfriend of 2 months! lol

Reply 12

Trigger

FFS! Just do what you want :rolleyes:

Reply 13

sweetface.

3232

Bad advice...

Reply 14

Strictly Business

I take no one else got the impression that the thread starter is relatively young, and is why she's asking for advice?

Reply 15

Tag

the only thing that makes you a slag is other people's opinions.

Reply 16

city_chic

I'd personally never consider sleeping with a bf of only 2 months, at least half a year for me. But I wouldn't consider you a slag for doing any different.

Reply 17

sweetface.

Bad advice...

Good fun though, eh?

The point is that 'slaggish' behaviour is subjective, what i might think is perfectly normal, someone else may think is completely reprehensible and worse than murder. The OP needs to decide herself what is or isn't promiscuous behaviour, rather than asking us.