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    So, this random guy messaged me on Facebook who lives in the same city, we have mutual friends, so I suppose I felt I could trust him, but I have never met him. We got talking, about literally so much stuff, he seems nice, and it was quite flirty from the start. Then he asked me on a date!!! Which I agreed to because I thought I'd give him a chance, but yikes I was only looking for a casual thing.
    This is where it turns worse. We ended up sexting, and now I'm so scared that when I meet him, it's going to be the most awkward moment ever, especially if there's no chemistry between us.
    To make things worse, I'm only fresh out of another relationship. I have really messed up :shy2:
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    So, this random guy messaged me on Facebook who lives in the same city, we have mutual friends, so I suppose I felt I could trust him, but I have never met him. We got talking, about literally so much stuff, he seems nice, and it was quite flirty from the start. Then he asked me on a date!!! Which I agreed to because I thought I'd give him a chance, but yikes I was only looking for a casual thing.
    This is where it turns worse. We ended up sexting, and now I'm so scared that when I meet him, it's going to be the most awkward moment ever, especially if there's no chemistry between us.
    To make things worse, I'm only fresh out of another relationship. I have really messed up :shy2:
    If there is no chemistry after the date you do not see him again.
    No problem.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So, this random guy messaged me on Facebook who lives in the same city, we have mutual friends, so I suppose I felt I could trust him, but I have never met him. We got talking, about literally so much stuff, he seems nice, and it was quite flirty from the start. Then he asked me on a date!!! Which I agreed to because I thought I'd give him a chance, but yikes I was only looking for a casual thing.
    This is where it turns worse. We ended up sexting, and now I'm so scared that when I meet him, it's going to be the most awkward moment ever, especially if there's no chemistry between us.
    To make things worse, I'm only fresh out of another relationship. I have really messed up :shy2:
    I did that once we were having a normal conversation on fb we both were at uni and suddenly it was very flirty met up the next day for first time and it felt so awkward as there was zero chemistry between us but I had so much in common with them compared to anyone else.

    We kissed and I think he wanted more as in sex but i said no as it was too soon and he didn't want to hang out after so I messaged him to be honest and he said he wanted casual as he just broken up with someone made me feel like crap that I was being used.

    You need to be honest with what you are looking for. To be honest I would not sext unless I have met them first for reason I gave above.
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    I guess I didn't think enough when we got talking but I'll give it a shot anyway. Just hope it isn't really bad 😅
 
 
 
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