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    Recently, I've been dissatisfied in my relationship as it seems that, I give more than what I get back. And I have to work for it, if I wanted something. He does put in support, and meets up and gifts and pays . But, so far, i've put in more by cooking, supporting him more , physical and emotional while he has been sick and stressed over exams. I've been trying to wait until exams are over to see if it's because of the exam stressed. But, it has been like this for more than a month.

    And he's been more hostile , pushing me away when I have been wanting to help. He says it's a reflex because he doesn't like other seeing that he is in pain. And I've felt like his bottom priority. I just wish he could meet me half way with some of the things. And we've been dating for 6 months.

    I don't want to break up with him, but, I don't want it to get worse.
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    Recently, I've been dissatisfied in my relationship as it seems that, I give more than what I get back. And I have to work for it, if I wanted something. He does put in support, and meets up and gifts and pays . But, so far, i've put in more by cooking, supporting him more , physical and emotional while he has been sick and stressed over exams. I've been trying to wait until exams are over to see if it's because of the exam stressed. But, it has been like this for more than a month.

    And he's been more hostile , pushing me away when I have been wanting to help. He says it's a reflex because he doesn't like other seeing that he is in pain. And I've felt like his bottom priority. I just wish he could meet me half way with some of the things. And we've been dating for 6 months.

    I don't want to break up with him, but, I don't want it to get worse.
    I'm not being funny but have you tried talking to him?

    Probably try and be direct with him about your concerns rather than coming to the worst place in the world for relationship advice, people your age on a student forum...
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    JP092 has a good point. You would do best by talking to him. Let him know how you feel and what your concerns are. If you are worried about him becoming hostile towards you try meeting in a semi public place - quiet but with other people around. Sometimes taking a break can be helpful also. If he is pushing you away maybe he is not ready for the same things you are. You deserve to be safe and happy. You don't need a man or anyone else to make you happy.
    Good luck. I hope things work out.
 
 
 
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