Mucked stuff up...again

Last week met up with a guy and everything went well, i liked him and he seemed to like me and then text him few days later saying do you want to do something this week and he said he's busy this week and doesn't want to let me down so i said ok let me know. That was on monday and today lunchtime i text saying hey how are you? had a good week?.... no reply..and then i was reading his last texts and accidently called (phone is touch screen) and i quickly hung up and then text saying sorry accidently called i guess you're busy... no reply... what is going on? i mean yeah maybe he is actually busy but it's so rude because last week he was buying me drinks and it seemed as if he would want to meet up again soon.. now he probably thinks i'm some kind of stalker.. ugh... :frown:

Reply 1

noodles!

...maybe he's genuinely busy. If I were you, I'd give him a bit of time, say, a week, or just a few days, then contact him again saying you'd like to see him again. Hope it works out (Y)

(sorry if that's bad advice, it's late lol :P)

Reply 2

Deus

Exams by any chance? I know a lot of exams are taking place this time of year. :smile:

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

He's 20 (i'm 18) and works so no exams...seems like he really isn't interested and do you think i've pushed him away by calling/texting? really don't think he's going to contact me again *sigh* :frown:

Reply 4

sweetface.

Yeah you need to give him time, I am sure he will contact you when he's not busy :smile:

Give it a chance, and give it time.

Reply 5

Deus

I wouldn't be so negative. There are many many possible explanations, and it's not worth speculating.

Try to relax. I speak from experience because on several occasions I have sent "too" many text messages etc. But from the sounds of it you are far from achieving any sort of "stalker" type behaviour. Just relax and be patient. That's probably the best advice. :smile:

*hug*

Reply 6

noodles!

If he works, he may have a lot on.

Like my last post said, give it a few days, and just text saying that youre sorry for flooding him with texts and youd like to see him again, but if he doesnt want to he should just tell you.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Thanks everyone =) what if he doesn't contact me again? I really like him and have had so many awful experiences with relationships that when this came along and I thought it would work out I was so happy.. and now he's ignoring me :frown:

Reply 8

thatwhichiam

Don't put so much pressure on something after just one date, you seem to be perhaps too into him/the idea of you two together for this early on. It may seem hard, but just pick yourself up and move on and find someone new. If he doesn't want to be with you then there's not much you can do.
However he did reassure you that you'd meet up again, didn't he? Don't lose all hope, but don't concentrate too hard on this one thing.