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    OK, let me just explain a few things, Iv been feeling along for a very long time (no family, away from uni, no social life).

    I cant socialize due to workflow, I hate clubs as those are not the right kind of women I want to pickup;
    (No offense, but I dont want a girl who wears skimpy clothes advertising herself on a dancfloor)
    Im physically unattractive,
    There are NO, NONE, NADA, girls on my course.

    I feel its too late to join a society as its may...

    I hate having male company 24/7, its irritating.
    Im starting to know what prison feels like :/

    what do I do
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    OK, let me just explain a few things, Iv been feeling along for a very long time (no family, away from uni, no social life).

    I cant socialize due to workflow, I hate clubs as those are not the right kind of women I want to pickup;
    (No offense, but I dont want a girl who wears skimpy clothes advertising herself on a dancfloor)
    Im physically unattractive,
    There are NO, NONE, NADA, girls on my course.

    I feel its too late to join a society as its may...

    I hate having male company 24/7, its irritating.
    Im starting to know what prison feels like :/

    what do I do
    Try getting out more and this doesn't mean that you have to socialise. Perhaps you could try the library or a cafe or somewhere to do your work that means getting out and not feeling so imprisoned, (also, I'm sure you're not physically unattractive, don't put yourself down)
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    (Original post by Wordnerd2)
    Try getting out more and this doesn't mean that you have to socialise. Perhaps you could try the library or a cafe or somewhere to do your work that means getting out and not feeling so imprisoned, (also, I'm sure you're not physically unattractive, don't put yourself down)
    -E
    I cant :'(
    There is nothing outside of these four walls I call home
    Its a pretty dangerous area
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    I cant :'(
    There is nothing outside of these four walls I call home
    Its a pretty dangerous area
    Dangerous.. Do you get into fights?

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    Try over the holiday period getting a part time job? You can try and socialise with the people you want to.

    I'm quite introverted and I've realised working in retail has helped me come out my shell a little.

    I think now that it's exam period hardly anyone is thinking about their social life, so don't think about it too much. Plan your holidays out- get a job, volunteer or be with your family again.

    When you go back to uni, think about joining societies etc so you can mingle with people who share the same likes and interests as you
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    it's never too late to make friends you just need to put in the effort. Join a society or get a volunteering job even a part time job? Maybe apply for jobs that females would usually apply for if you want to be around girls.
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    More context needed, but consider the options I've outlined for those in your position and feel free to PM me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I cant :'(
    There is nothing outside of these four walls I call home
    Its a pretty dangerous area
    Are you at university or? It sounds pretty dangerous, I'm here if you need to talk :/
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    I cant socialize due to workflow
    Nonsense. It doesn't matter what you do in life there is always time to socialise. Don't delude yourself as an excuse not to get out more.

    I hate clubs as those are not the right kind of women I want to pickup;
    (No offense, but I dont want a girl who wears skimpy clothes advertising herself on a dancfloor)
    Don't judge people by their clothes or their sexuality. You can be intelligent and ambitious and enjoy one night stands. And don't narrow down going out to just sweat-box clubs. There are pubs, bars, coffee shops, etc.

    Im physically unattractive,
    Go to the gym. Get a haircut. Buy flattering clothes.

    All you are doing is making sorry excuses. You're trying to convince yourself that everything is out of your control so therefore there is nothing you can do. This is common but inexcusable. Make direct changes to your life and open your mind.
 
 
 
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