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    I often worry about this because ever since I realised and accepted that I was bisexual, I wondered how many people would actually want to date me if they found out. I was already worrying about the fact that I'm mixed White and Black Caribbean and many guys I've been interested in (as I have a preference for guys) seemed to be less interested in me and I feel like this is one of the contributing factors. However, this may just be me feeling insecure about the way I look in comparison to other girls.
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    Neither of those things are at all relevant when I'm tryna figure out if I'm attracted to somebody or nah
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    (Original post by senpyi)
    I often worry about this because ever since I realised and accepted that I was bisexual, I wondered how many people would actually want to date me if they found out. I was already worrying about the fact that I'm mixed White and Black Caribbean and many guys I've been interested in (as I have a preference for guys) seemed to be less interested in me and I feel like this is one of the contributing factors. However, this may just be me feeling insecure about the way I look in comparison to other girls.
    Sure, don't see why not. (Retired_Messiah hit the nail on the head p much)

    You do get the odd people who don't understand and/or are ********s about it, but those are the people you don't want to be dating anyway.

    You're fine just as you are
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    Neither of those things are at all relevant when I'm tryna figure out if I'm attracted to somebody or nah
    Thank you for replying, I hope there are more people like you out there because not everyone is like you and its a shame.
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    (Original post by lightwoXd)
    Sure, don't see why not. (Retired_Messiah hit the nail on the head p much)

    You do get the odd people who don't understand and/or are ********s about it, but those are the people you don't want to be dating anyway.

    You're fine just as you are
    Thank you, yeah that's so true. I wouldn't want to waste my time on people like that anyway. I'm just going to try and continue being happy and being me
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    The only people who care about race are grand prix
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    (Original post by senpyi)
    I often worry about this because ever since I realised and accepted that I was bisexual, I wondered how many people would actually want to date me if they found out. I was already worrying about the fact that I'm mixed White and Black Caribbean and many guys I've been interested in (as I have a preference for guys) seemed to be less interested in me and I feel like this is one of the contributing factors. However, this may just be me feeling insecure about the way I look in comparison to other girls.
    Mix race girls can be beaut, but I wouldn't date someone bisexual, just my opinion..
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    I've dated several Bisexual girls in the past, doesn't bother me at all.

    I happen to know that some guys are threatened by it (more opportunities for their girlfriend to think others are better than they are). I even saw it happen once, a good friend of mine had his girlfriend leave him for a girl haha.

    I think honestly though, it's a bit silly. Like I said, it wouldn't bother me at all and I don't think it should bother others.
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    I doubt most people care that your mixed raced. But the bisexual thing might cause an issue for some.
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    Mix race girls can be beaut, but I wouldn't date someone bisexual, just my opinion..
    That's fair enough, I understand that a lot of people wouldn't because they either don't understand or can't accept that fact, it's all a matter of opinion
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    Mix race girls can be beaut, but I wouldn't date someone bisexual, just my opinion..
    Out of curiosity, why not? I'm not judging.

    ...yet.
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    I wouldn't mind at all, on either count.
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    (Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob)
    The only people who care about race are grand prix
    That's very true. They are the biggest prix in the world.
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    The race doesn't really matter cuz if anyone accepts me, I can't really complain.. It depends if I find them attractive. Don't go guys go crazy for mix girls? That's new to me if they don't.

    Bisexual? Maybe not. It would be nice to talk about boy on boy romance novels with my bf and celebrities who I think are hot but I'm not sure if I want extra competition in the race, lol.
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    (Original post by Richci)
    I've dated several Bisexual girls in the past, doesn't bother me at all.

    I happen to know that some guys are threatened by it (more opportunities for their girlfriend to think others are better than they are). I even saw it happen once, a good friend of mine had his girlfriend leave him for a girl haha.

    I think honestly though, it's a bit silly. Like I said, it wouldn't bother me at all and I don't think it should bother others.
    That's usually what it is. That's why my Mum didn't agree with it at first. Although my relationships have nothing to do with her really, she thought I was trying to "have my cake and eat it" as they say. Even though, its not like that at all. My attraction to both genders varies but generally, I prefer men.
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    (Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
    Out of curiosity, why not? I'm not judging.

    ...yet.
    Anything except Heterosexuality is against my religion (Islam).....
    Only reason... Otherwise, I genuinely wouldn't mind, as long as I loved her!
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    Bisexual female and mixed race? Sounds like the dream lass.
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    Anything except Heterosexuality is against my religion (Islam).....
    Only reason... Otherwise, I genuinely wouldn't mind, as long as I loved her!
    oh dear....
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    (Original post by senpyi)
    That's usually what it is. That's why my Mum didn't agree with it at first. Although my relationships have nothing to do with her really, she thought I was trying to "have my cake and eat it" as they say. Even though, its not like that at all. My attraction to both genders varies but generally, I prefer men.
    Yeah, I've seen that mindset a few times. People seem to forget that you don't choose what you do and don't like... But there we go! As long as you do what makes you happy and end up with someone who feels the same, it's all good.
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    (Original post by SmileyVibe)
    The race doesn't really matter cuz if anyone accepts me, I can't really complain.. It depends if I find them attractive. Don't go guys go crazy for mix girls? That's new to me if they don't.

    Bisexual? Maybe not. It would be nice to talk about boy on boy romance novels with my bf and celebrities who I think are hot but I'm not sure if I want extra competition in the race, lol.
    Well, I haven't yet experienced the whole 'going crazy for mix girls' thing. My Mum says that it will probably come along when I go into college but who knows? We'll have to wait and see. Yeah, I think that's how a lot of people see it. Either that or some guys think its their free ticket to having a threesome. Either way, it's not really how things go, at least for me. But hey, it's all a matter of opinion.
 
 
 
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