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    Who else notices this? Why is it whenever I am casually walking with an attractive female by my side I get guys purposely barging into me, or if I am in a shop they always eye up the girl first then give me attitude like I somewhere violated them just for walking with an attractive girl!!

    Whereas if she's slightly on the heavy side or not so aesthetically pleasing, then I get treated completely opposite compared to if the girl is good-looking.

    I know it might be jealousy/hatred, but why hate just because I have an attractive girl by my side, it makes no sense, can't they get girls or something.
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    (Original post by Blazing 420)
    Who else notices this? Why is it whenever I am casually walking with an attractive female by my side I get guys purposely barging into me, or if I am in a shop they always eye up the girl first then give me attitude like I somewhere violated them just for walking with an attractive girl!!

    Whereas if she's slightly on the heavy side or not so aesthetically pleasing, then I get treated completely opposite compared to if the girl is good-looking.

    I know it might be jealousy/hatred, but why hate just because I have an attractive girl by my side, it makes no sense, can't they get girls or something.
    I've never noticed this, then again I've been told I look like a Neo-Nazi so... I guess people would be less inclined to give me attitude or barge into me haha.
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    obv jealous haters
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    (Original post by Blazing 420)
    Who else notices this? Why is it whenever I am casually walking with an attractive female by my side I get guys purposely barging into me, or if I am in a shop they always eye up the girl first then give me attitude like I somewhere violated them just for walking with an attractive girl!!

    Whereas if she's slightly on the heavy side or not so aesthetically pleasing, then I get treated completely opposite compared to if the girl is good-looking.

    I know it might be jealousy/hatred, but why hate just because I have an attractive girl by my side, it makes no sense, can't they get girls or something.
    they can't get attractive girls if they're not attractive too, so that's why they're jealous. It's like if you drive a Ferrari,people will spit on it when it's parked. People are jealous about the things they can't get.
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    (Your lack of physical stature x Their brutishness) + Their Immaturity = The answer :dontknow:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    (Your lack of physical stature x Their brutishness) + Their Immaturity = The answer :dontknow:
    What do you mean "your lack of physical stature"? I am not even a small or scrawny dude.
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    (Original post by Blazing 420)
    What do you mean "your lack of physical stature"? I am not even a small or scrawny dude.
    Well, nobody ever does it to me
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Well, nobody ever does it to me
    Right.:erm:

    I don't usually get attitude into when I am on my jack jones, it usually just occurs when in the company of female companionship. So I doubt it has anything to do with my size.
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    (Original post by Blazing 420)
    Right.:erm:

    I don't usually get attitude into when I am on my jack jones, it usually just occurs when in the company of female companionship. So I doubt it has anything to do with my size.
    Yep, and as I said above... As Foo.mp3 said, you don't look like a threat.
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    courtship display is a set of display behaviors in which an animal attempts to attract a mate and exhibit their desire to copulate. These behaviors often include ritualized movement ("dances"), vocalizations, mechanical sound production, or displays of beauty, strength, or agonistic ability.
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    (Original post by Blazing 420)
    Al right cool fam, what's with the passive aggressive post? What do you want man to do about your post? Do you want a medal or kiss on the ****?

    You trying to get into some internet beef?

    And as I said above, when I am on my Jack Jones this kind of ish don't happen only when I am with an attractive female.

    But I am not going to argue on-line with a 26 year old about who's more of a threat or not because I have an attractive female on my arm. Grow up, When true say, exchanging insults on-line don't mean jack ****.
    Jeez, alright precious, just ribbing you, didn't mean to hurt your feelings
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    (Original post by Richci)
    I've never noticed this, then again I've been told I look like a Neo-Nazi so... I guess people would be less inclined to give me attitude or barge into me haha.
    i noticed a similar issue myself but then again not only do i look like a russian mobster half the time also people know about the people i know and have links to so are a bit fearful
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    I'm assuming you're asking this as a guy with an attractive girl?

    It's a jealousy factor. You "have" something they want. And an attractive female sets off all the usual primal signals in males. Naturally though that doesn't make it okay. Take it as a compliment but equally it isn't fair on either of you if you feel uncomfortable.

    As a side note, and I don't wish to offend, if one of you is particularly better looking than the other it can set off a similar reaction. How did he get her and all that sort of stuff. We naturally gravitate towards people of similar attractiveness. If there's a noticeable difference it gets attention. Most likely jealousy though.
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    They're simply jealous that they were such losers and wishing them next to her, it's usually their nature :erm:
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    (Original post by Blazing 420)
    What do you mean "your lack of physical stature"?
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    Well, nobody ever does it to me
    See above Blazing 420. This doesn't really happen to those of us who look like we could handle ourselves :huff:
 
 
 
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