If you started liking someone, would you be straightforward and tell them right away about your feelings or would you wait until you're sure that they like you back?
- Thread Starter
- 05-05-2016 01:35
- 05-05-2016 11:06
I liked some guy but I didn't reveal it after he said he liked me back.
We're going out 2 months strong(e-dating lmao- but we're meeting up after our exams).
- 05-05-2016 11:08
Hmm I guess I wouldn't tell them unless I was really sure- because sometimes you could just be crushing. I wouldn't waste being rejected by someone over a trivial crush LOL 😂
- Community Assistant
- 05-05-2016 11:10
I think if everyone had the waiting mentality nobody would get anywhere. On the whole I'm a shy person. If I liked someone I'd have to actually pluck up the courage to go and tell them. If I didn't and they were shy then neither of us would say anything.
That's not to say you have to be straightforward and tell them though. If you liked someone and straight up told them as soon as possible you might creep them out and have the opposite effect. If you like someone then pursue them. When you tell them is up to you. Sometimes it's implied. If you like someone and asked them on a date it's pretty obvious that you like them.
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