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    I met a girl through a walking group a while ago, she seemed very keen to be friends but is quite flaky in keeping in contact. I texted her the other day and it took her 2 days to reply. I understand people have lives which I am not bothered about. What I don't get is she had been on Facebook a lot in the meantime, shared and liked pictures, had logged online to the walking group and had been on what's app. Her reply was very vague too. Whilst I understand now she isn't that bothered about me how long should I leave it to reply to her? I just feel like I keep making all of the effort.
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    I met a girl through a walking group a while ago, she seemed very keen to be friends but is quite flaky in keeping in contact. I texted her the other day and it took her 2 days to reply. I understand people have lives which I am not bothered about. What I don't get is she had been on Facebook a lot in the meantime, shared and liked pictures, had logged online to the walking group and had been on what's app. Her reply was very vague too. Whilst I understand now she isn't that bothered about me how long should I leave it to reply to her? I just feel like I keep making all of the effort.
    I know that I am not good at keeping contact with my friends, she may just be one of those people.
    But if you think she isn't that keen, maybe just forget about it; if you're having to make all the effort it isn't worth it.
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    I met a girl through a walking group a while ago, she seemed very keen to be friends but is quite flaky in keeping in contact. I texted her the other day and it took her 2 days to reply. I understand people have lives which I am not bothered about. What I don't get is she had been on Facebook a lot in the meantime, shared and liked pictures, had logged online to the walking group and had been on what's app. Her reply was very vague too. Whilst I understand now she isn't that bothered about me how long should I leave it to reply to her? I just feel like I keep making all of the effort.
    It seems to be she just simply is not interested. forget her, if she wants to text you she will x
    If you still want to proceed the friendship then try talking to her about it- Obviously this depends on how close u are.
 
 
 
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