I'll go through these points one by one for clarity's sake:
1) The pay gap is absolutely a construct. Like, it's utterly refuted. The regularly quoted figure is something like women earn around 20% less than men. This figure is arrived at by adding up all the money men and women earn, and comparing the numbers. This is obviously a daft way to do such a comparison. If you compare men and women in the same role, working the same hours and with the same level of education, the pay gap drops to between 3% in favour of men, to 3% in favour of women. In fact, under the age of 35, the pay gap is most definitely in favour of women:
http://time.com/3222543/5-feminist-myths-that-will-not-die/http://www.forbes.com/sites/karinagness/2016/04/12/dont-buy-into-the-gender-pay-gap-myth/#2edd652d4766http://now.org/resource/the-gender-pay-gap-myth-vs-fact/http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/harvard-prof.-takes-down-gender-wage-gap-myth/article/2580405http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2011/nov/27/young-women-earning-more-men2) What on earth definition of rape culture are you using, to suggest that their is such an attitude in the West?! I'm gonna go with the dictionary definition, which defines rape culture as 'a society where rape is pervasive and normalised, as a result of attitudes towards gender and sexuality'. Now, last time I checked, rape is neither pervasive nor normalised in the West. You want to see what a rape culture looks like, try this BBC piece on South Africa:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/8107039.stmThat's what a rape culture is. Nowhere in the West does such a culture exist, so your claim is a nonsense. And how can you claim that thousands of rapes go unreported every year (I presume you mean in Britain); surely the definition of unreported claims is we don't know about them? If you can provide a source corroborating this I'd appreciate it.
3) Believing the migrants from the Middle East and North Africa hold deeply abhorrent views towards women is racist?! That's a ridiculous assertion, especially when it's blatantly true that such views are commonplace in these regions. Do you not see the irony in someone who champions feminism defending cultures who oppose more or less everything feminism stands for?
4) I'm not denying that social conditioning plays a part; it absolutely does. But the claim that there is no biological basis for the differences in choices men and women make is outdated by some 20 years. This documentary is a prime example:
[video="youtube;YTOFXLl7eh4"]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTOFXLl7eh4[/video]
Of particular interest are two studies it quotes. Firstly, a study done on 50 odd countries which showed that as societies become more equal, less women choose to enter 'male-dominated' fields like STEM subjects. The reason being that in more backwards countries, women chooses the subjects they need to in order to make a living. But in countries with social welfare and the like, they choose what they want to. The other study was one done on 2 week old babies. They placed the babies on the floor surrounded by toys and left them alone in the room. The study showed that girls almost always went to play with dolls and faces, whereas boys would play with mechanical things like building blocks. And before you suggest this could be social conditioning, the same trend is observed in the offspring of all mammals. Whilst social conditioning most definitely does play a part in the differences between men and women, there is strong evidence that biology also plays a part.
4) How are they different? You're claiming that anyone who believes in equality is a feminist, regardless of any other differences in opinion. I'm saying anyone who believes in a god is a Christian, regardless of any other differences in opinion. The logic being used is essentially the same.