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    Hello,

    Please help, thank you in advance.

    This is both a health/relationship issue I guess.

    To give you a bit of background I have recently split with my girlfriend after 2/3 years, we had a healthy sexual relationship, sex was regular.

    Lovely girl, I will miss her, but I ended it because I didn't see a future in us and I didn't want to string her along. ( I thought long and hard about this and we did try to fix things)

    I was looking forward to being single and working on developing myself and my carear but since becoming single my sex drive/testosterone levels have been through the roof, so much so I'm finding it hard to concentrate and I'm not thinking clearly or working hard.

    As soon as I masturbate I think rationally again and I become more productive and I feel "grounded", I don't want to have to do this all the time it's not feasible, does anyone have any advice? Will anything else have the same/similar affect on me?

    Any suggestions?

    Thanks again in advance.

    God bless
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    Hello,

    Please help, thank you in advance.

    This is both a health/relationship issue I guess.

    To give you a bit of background I have recently split with my girlfriend after 2/3 years, we had a healthy sexual relationship, sex was regular.

    Lovely girl, I will miss her, but I ended it because I didn't see a future in us and I didn't want to string her along. ( I thought long and hard about this and we did try to fix things)

    I was looking forward to being single and working on developing myself and my carear but since becoming single my sex drive/testosterone levels have been through the roof, so much so I'm finding it hard to concentrate and I'm not thinking clearly or working hard.

    As soon as I masturbate I think rationally again and I become more productive and I feel "grounded", I don't want to have to do this all the time it's not feasible, does anyone have any advice? Will anything else have the same/similar affect on me?

    Any suggestions?

    Thanks again in advance.

    God bless
    Doubt it. Maybe exercising. LOTS of it, so you're too tired to even think about ****ing.
 
 
 
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