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    This girl keeps tagging me in posts on Facebook and for the first couple of times I messaged her about it in a jokey way or replied to the tag and we would have a short conversation. But recently she tagged me in something and I messaged her about it and she point blank ignored me. She hasn't even read it and the message it to long for her to read it in the preview thing. So she doesn't know what it said, to be fair the first part of the message looks like i'm mad but i'm not she just has to read it. It's so frustrating like why are you tagging me in these posts and then you go and ignore me. She will have a notification saying I messaged her until she reads it....

    I can't be asked anymore......................... .....

    Any advice on what to do would be great?
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    Stop using Facebook altogether. Waste of data

    As long as you told her whats been bothering you , you are on the right track.
    If she continues.... Well I would suggest the secret method of blocking... not forever tho.

    I just remembered... in between stoping Facebook and the other thing... face to face talking is also an option
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    Just don't reply back to her. When she tags you just ignore her and she'll probably message you asking what you think.
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    i am 100% guilty of doing what you described. ʕ´•ᴥ•`ʔ

    there are many reasons why she did that though!! please dont assume that its because she dislikes you or anything - since shes tagging you in stuff and not blanking you entirely, she likely still likes you.

    she may not have received the notification - or perhaps she did, but cleared them accidentally and didnt see the notification. maybe she was busy when she saw your message and meant to respond later on, but forgot, or too much time had passed by the time she had finished what she was doing and she felt awkward responding then. maybe she didnt have the energy to have a conversation when you messaged her.

    i have pretty bad social anxiety thats really elevated when pm-ing people. i sometimes leave messages for months (´。• - •。`) but i dont dislike who messaged me! i just find it hard to talk.

    so please try not to worry too much!! chances are, its all okay.
    nonetheless, i hope she gets back to you soon! ☆
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This girl keeps tagging me in posts on Facebook and for the first couple of times I messaged her about it in a jokey way or replied to the tag and we would have a short conversation. But recently she tagged me in something and I messaged her about it and she point blank ignored me. She hasn't even read it and the message it to long for her to read it in the preview thing. So she doesn't know what it said, to be fair the first part of the message looks like i'm mad but i'm not she just has to read it. It's so frustrating like why are you tagging me in these posts and then you go and ignore me. She will have a notification saying I messaged her until she reads it....

    I can't be asked anymore......................... .....

    Any advice on what to do would be great?
    She probably does not care about texting you. She's probably not a texter, Random but weird just ignore it. Don't respond to her tags she'll text u eventually
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Any advice on what to do would be great?
    Less social media/second guessing, and more living in the real world, for you, my son
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    Facebook, needlessly overcomplicating simple human interaction since 2004
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    Like others have said fb is a waste of time and no need to get upset so easily because of someone tagging you just ignore it.
 
 
 
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