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"Depression a 21st century plague"

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Reply 40
poppy22
This is probably going to wind people up, but I think it needs to be said...

I recon that a lot of people use the term "depression" as an excuse for the fact that they are not mentally strong. -And because it's been labeled as an illness then they get some sort of pity as it is not their fault. It really winds me up when people get depressed about stupid things such as;



when there are so many people out there who have lost everything but are mentally strong enough not to bring everyone else down with them.

And before everyone gets really cross, I do recognise that some people genuinely have depression but I think that the majority of people who say they do or are diagnosed with it are looking for excuses to feel sorry for themselves.


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Sorani
There are doctors who don't even take you seriously when you *have* done some of those things. Some doctors I think aren't really sure of how to deal with it and seem to turn to pills like fluoxetine straight away to try and make the problem go away.

I fully agree with you. The first doctor said that nothing could help me. Now, my original doctor just said I have a problem, but that nothing can be done to help me.
The thing that annoyed me most about doctors is that I went to mine following a suicide attempt in April and ended up being kicked off the waiting list for the CPN, who I urgently needed to see by then. That episode has made me pretty much lose all my faith in doctors. :mad: :mad:

Then there was the time I had to go for a blood test because I had made myself seriously ill in the long term following an earlier suicide attempt. The nurse asked me why I had got so ill so I thought it best to be honest. I did not expect judgement from a nurse but she went absolutely insane at me. It was an act of desperation and not an act of stupidity. :mad: :mad:
poppy22
I've noticed that a lot of people who are "depressed" publicise it whereas people with other mental illness tend not to as much. This is one of the reasons I find it hard to believe that the depression is a genuine illness as to me it often appears to be an attention seeking act.
Are you saying no one suffers from depression. That everyone is happy or those which really aren't can all still cope? Just because you find depresion hard to comprehend dosen't mean it doesn't exists. It racks lives. Yes there are people who lie about it to attention seek and they make it harder for people such as myself who really suffer from it to get sympathy and help. I don't talk about it much in RL or online because I find it hard to. Plus I prefer not to normally as it makes me more depressed.
NJA
The statistics show the depression in the United States continues to surpass its all-time highs, we have had increases in diagnosed depression nearly every year for two decades in a row now and there is no end in site. In fact one study showed a 12% of the American population is taking Prozac. (Ezine)

Similarly I am told there were 31 million prescriptions for depression last year in the UK, compared to:-
1971: 7 million
1981: 8 million
1991: 9 million
2001: 27 million

Have we forgotten the old remedies?
In the 1970s you may have been told "your father fought in the war or worked down the coalmine so snap out of it".
Did people just turn to alcohol more ?
Do doctore more readily prescribe the pills now whereas in "the good old days" it would just be "join a rambling club" ?
Or, has society changed so that there is actually more depression ?

Or a combination of all ??

I suspect the latter - there is certainly more information flow and the more you hear about depression, the more you might tell yourself you have it, and then self-induce it to some extent.

I don't want to join a rambling club I have higher expectations!

People have become more educated and so expected more in life. Most fathers of the current generation didn't fight a war so they can't say that. Times were different in the 1970s, feminism was only starting to become widespread. Before the majority of women thought a husband with an ok job and some kids is fine. Now housewives feel they have a right to express depression over that. I certainly don't want to be a housewife and have kids at the mo. It would make me feel worse!

Also with an increase of the educated comes tougher competition for jobs/courses. Where once getting a 2:2 meant you were made for life, often now firsts/2:1/ even masters and PhDs are expected for the same kind of jobs and not everyone can makes the cut and even if they do they were not be accepted because of the higher no of applicants. Also there was a bigger stigma associated with depression than it is now (although it still exists). In the past if someone felt they couldn’t cope they kept it to themselves because it was considering too embarrassing to admit.
there's no dignity in labour any more.
While the USA is definitely overmedicated, I am on an antidepressant and it has done wonders for me.

I think some people, when denied proper treatment, will self-medicate with weed, alcohol, etc. I did for a long time and became a full-blown alcoholic. And my brother is the biggest stoner ever, no coincidence our parents just got divorced and he's failing out of school
I've never got the idea of drinking to cover up problems. OK, I used to do it before I gave up alcohol but it made me so much worse. Alcohol is a depressant so is not the answer.
Reply 48
ok so it may be more socially acceptable to be depressed but that doesn't mean that some people don't genuinely suffer from it. I have depression (which evolved from anorexia) but don't like to talk about it much as I think people won't take it seriously
DeSiFiEd
wow thats very comforting - did you get in? How did you go about alerting them? thanks alot.


I wrote to them separately and said, that I am suffering from post traumatic stress and I can get a teacher to support it if need be. I sent them an email, also a reference from my teacher explaining that I am depressed and it is impacting upon my studies, and that was it. I got in yes. I however feel quite bad as i declined their offer. But all the universities I contacted this year were very supportive.
Reply 50
starchild
I wrote to them separately and said, that I am suffering from post traumatic stress and I can get a teacher to support it if need be. I sent them an email, also a reference from my teacher explaining that I am depressed and it is impacting upon my studies, and that was it. I got in yes. I however feel quite bad as i declined their offer. But all the universities I contacted this year were very supportive.


Thank you soo much! :smile: