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Upset
I kind of upset right now and none of my friends are around (or they don't know the true story)
A few weeks ago, I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy who was also with someone. While I told and broke up with my boyfriend, the guy decided not to tell his girlfriend. (all three are members hence the anon)
We had been friends for months and I just put it down to a mistake and one off. However, we slept together a few more times after I became single and when he went home after uni, we started talking everyday and then one day he said that he loved me.
I know how these stories always end but my life has not been to good recently so while I was trying to stay realistic, a part of me had hope that everything was going to be ok and that I would be happy. I have been been the "other" woman before and I didn't want to be, it all sort of happened. I do feel bad about his girlfriend a lot.
I had liked the guy for like months piror to break up with my ex and he is such a nice sweet understanding guy that I can't hate him for the fact that last night he told me he is going to try and make things work out with his other half.
Part of me is happy for the guy because he told me a lot about her but I am also really upset and hurting because I did have hope and I was happy. A lot of my friends don't know why I broke up with boyfriend, they all think that it was the distance and I don't really want this whole world to know what really happened - a lot of my friends have big mouths and can't keep anything quiet.
A few weeks ago, I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy who was also with someone. While I told and broke up with my boyfriend, the guy decided not to tell his girlfriend. (all three are members hence the anon)
We had been friends for months and I just put it down to a mistake and one off. However, we slept together a few more times after I became single and when he went home after uni, we started talking everyday and then one day he said that he loved me.
I know how these stories always end but my life has not been to good recently so while I was trying to stay realistic, a part of me had hope that everything was going to be ok and that I would be happy. I have been been the "other" woman before and I didn't want to be, it all sort of happened. I do feel bad about his girlfriend a lot.
I had liked the guy for like months piror to break up with my ex and he is such a nice sweet understanding guy that I can't hate him for the fact that last night he told me he is going to try and make things work out with his other half.
Part of me is happy for the guy because he told me a lot about her but I am also really upset and hurting because I did have hope and I was happy. A lot of my friends don't know why I broke up with boyfriend, they all think that it was the distance and I don't really want this whole world to know what really happened - a lot of my friends have big mouths and can't keep anything quiet.
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