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    Basically title, explains it all.

    I am jus getting to a point were, everyone is telling me that am holding out for to long, and that the first time is not special.

    just to clarify, i AM not ugly! i always get attention, but i want to loose it to someone that cares a lot about me. and makes it 'special' for me. Am I being to 'snobby', with regards to my first time?
    but i haven't met anyone i felt 'safe' or even comfortable to loose it to, at the same time i just think i am being to high standard, and just loose it to any one i meet?

    I dont know, but this is really getting me. Also i always think would I feel bad, afterwards?

    how do girls feel after their first time? do you feel used by the guy?

    just want some advice.

    i know its ultimately up to me, but so many people keep telling me i havent lived , cause am still a virgin, and that makes me feel deficient in some way.
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    You should get a bf then?
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    Flipping heck, it shouldn't be that difficult to find a half decent boyfriend if you are attractive and gagging for it. Don't think you'll feel used if you like each other and are dating.
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    Just wait for someone you genuinely like to roll up, go from there. Not everyone is into the casual scene.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i know its ultimately up to me, but so many people keep telling me i havent lived , cause am still a virgin,
    Well then so many people are talking rubbish.

    Do it when you're comfortable doing it, not before.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically title, explains it all.

    ... do you feel used by the guy?

    Why do girls think they do us guys a favour?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically title, explains it all.

    I am jus getting to a point were, everyone is telling me that am holding out for to long, and that the first time is not special.

    just to clarify, i AM not ugly! i always get attention, but i want to loose it to someone that cares a lot about me. and makes it 'special' for me. Am I being to 'snobby', with regards to my first time?
    but i haven't met anyone i felt 'safe' or even comfortable to loose it to, at the same time i just think i am being to high standard, and just loose it to any one i meet?

    I dont know, but this is really getting me. Also i always think would I feel bad, afterwards?

    how do girls feel after their first time? do you feel used by the guy?

    just want some advice.

    i know its ultimately up to me, but so many people keep telling me i havent lived , cause am still a virgin, and that makes me feel deficient in some way.
    It's not difficult for a woman to have sex. Clubs, bars, online dating...the list is endless for opportunities woman can find sex.

    You've held out for so long because you want it to be special? You simply want to be comfortable around someone? Then do that then.

    A lot of people are muppets, thinking they have a right to judge someone based on their sexual experiences (or lack thereof). I suggest you wait until a time when it feels right FOR YOU.
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    I was desperate to lose mine this time last year- nearly did on a number of occasions in less than ideal circumstances. But in the end I'm glad I waited until I was in a happy relationship to do it.
    It's not snobby, you're not asking for champagne and rose petals, just someone who you feel comfortable with I would hold your ground on that one personally.
 
 
 
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