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    We used to have conversation on Facebook and she used to tag me in quite a lot of posts and we would talk about that for a short time as well. I would say this went on for like 2 months, more messaging then tagging tagging, probably like 8 posts she tagged me in during that time... (When she tagged me in something it would be like 3 things in the space of like 2 days)

    All of sudden she tagged me in something and I did the I usual messaged her about it, and then she ignored it. She didn't even read the message until we saw each other a couple days later at work, she read it as soon as I started work. I tagged in something a day after to see if she would ignore that, she wouldn't before, but she did this time...

    "She tags me in something then doesn't want to hear my response all of a sudden and now she is just ignoring me..."

    I don't know what to do?!?!?!?!?

    Stop playing tag wars and talk to her when you see her.

    Just cause someone tags you in something doesn't mean they want you to start a conversation about it. People tag each other in funny/interesting posts all the time. Its more common to just reply to their comment on the tagged post instead of sending them a pm and trying to have some analytical conversation.

    tbh if someone private messaged me every single time i tagged them in a post, i'd just get sick of tagging them altogether. Not everything needs to be turned into a conversation. It's more than likely that the conversation will just be irrelevant, short and boring anyway.

    Conversations, like everything in life, do best with quality over quantity. Its not about talking as much as possible, it's about making sure that when you do talk you have memorable and engaging conversations. Otherwise she'll just start to associate you with your boring conversations and she'll have no interest in starting one with you.
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