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Do I like/love her?
Basically a few years ago me and this girl talked alot, and then we liked each other for a few months. And I mean I really liked her, thought about/talked about her 24/7, but we wernt going out as what people used to say always put me off (yes yes I know was stupid).
Then we left on bad terms and stoped talking for a year or so, just completly blanked each other. Now we are starting to talk again and well its the end of school and I am so afraid that I wont talk to her anymore, because shes like the only person I trust, completly, it like makes me feel sick. We talk loads on phone/txt but in person, unless we had a few drinks we hardly speak.
But when we are a bit tipsy we do get close, like we look like we are goin out. And its just like, do I like her? Cos i keep thinkng bout her all the time, but in person we just say hello, or dont talk its just so weird. And its really freaking stupid that we wont see each other cos we are leaving school. Also I get jealous/angry when she gives other people attention, and if she got a boyfriend or somthing I wouldnt exactly be happy..
crap i like her dont I?
Then we left on bad terms and stoped talking for a year or so, just completly blanked each other. Now we are starting to talk again and well its the end of school and I am so afraid that I wont talk to her anymore, because shes like the only person I trust, completly, it like makes me feel sick. We talk loads on phone/txt but in person, unless we had a few drinks we hardly speak.
But when we are a bit tipsy we do get close, like we look like we are goin out. And its just like, do I like her? Cos i keep thinkng bout her all the time, but in person we just say hello, or dont talk its just so weird. And its really freaking stupid that we wont see each other cos we are leaving school. Also I get jealous/angry when she gives other people attention, and if she got a boyfriend or somthing I wouldnt exactly be happy..
crap i like her dont I?
Reply 1
Of course you do. And like lessthanthree said.. it's just some form of clarification you needed to know you wasn't being silly. We all need it from time to time.. so don't think you're being silly or anything.
As for do you love her. I'm afraid nobody in here can help you out with that one mate. That's something you need to work out on your own. But don't worry you'll know if you do
As for do you love her. I'm afraid nobody in here can help you out with that one mate. That's something you need to work out on your own. But don't worry you'll know if you do
Reply 2
But like, I dont think im physically attracted to her. But damn her personality is amazing, shes like funny, makes me smile all the time even if its just on msn or something!
Its just like why dont we talk in person? We hardly say hello and stuff, and its weird because she said all this stuff to me when she was drunk on the phone and I just dont know.
Damn I should be revising.
Its just like why dont we talk in person? We hardly say hello and stuff, and its weird because she said all this stuff to me when she was drunk on the phone and I just dont know.
Damn I should be revising.
Reply 3
Hmm quick question OP.
I've not spoken to the person I'm pretty much madly in love with since January. Its all down to her and I've tried my hardest to talk to her.
Do you reckon she'll ever speak to me again? I did something to her...but I'm convinced one day she'll forgive me
I've not spoken to the person I'm pretty much madly in love with since January. Its all down to her and I've tried my hardest to talk to her.
Do you reckon she'll ever speak to me again? I did something to her...but I'm convinced one day she'll forgive me
Reply 5
I think most people on here have been thinking that lately ahaa.
Want to know what made me fall on the floor about my boyfriend. His eyes. They're amazing. That's it. Just his eyes. And then i started talking to him. And his personality is stupidly like mine.. and i was hooked. I could never say my boyfriend is fit.. he's just not the type you put that sort of label onto.. but i love him.. and he's mine.. and he's beautiful to me.. and that's all that matters.
It's different things that attract us to different people. I had a two year relationship with someone who i fell for their personality before i'd even seen them.
A very wise friend once said this to me:
A personality makes a person. They can be as beautiful as they want. But an ugly personality make an ugly person. A beutiful personality makes a beautiful person.
Think about what you want with this girl. Then tell her. Not us.
Want to know what made me fall on the floor about my boyfriend. His eyes. They're amazing. That's it. Just his eyes. And then i started talking to him. And his personality is stupidly like mine.. and i was hooked. I could never say my boyfriend is fit.. he's just not the type you put that sort of label onto.. but i love him.. and he's mine.. and he's beautiful to me.. and that's all that matters.
It's different things that attract us to different people. I had a two year relationship with someone who i fell for their personality before i'd even seen them.
A very wise friend once said this to me:
A personality makes a person. They can be as beautiful as they want. But an ugly personality make an ugly person. A beutiful personality makes a beautiful person.
Think about what you want with this girl. Then tell her. Not us.
Reply 6
Well like before, loads of people used to tell me I could do so much better and I was like um..ok.
I cant tell her all this, its make everything all complicated and I love being friends with her. What if she feels the same? Should we go out? Im not sure I want that.
But seriously, shes like this amazing person, even if she is a bit "typical" sometimes, its just wicked having her as a friend. But like I think im starting to go back into old ways, and damn we are leaving and Im finding it hard to come to terms with that.
And now, I can see us slowly drifting away and stuff, and its happening right in front of me and its like why? A part of me (and this sounds big-headed) thinks that shes trying to shut me out.
To the other anonymous guy, going to sound cheesy but do all you can and keep hoping. If it doesnt work out, dont worry you will find someone else, and you will look back like oh remember that girl?
I cant tell her all this, its make everything all complicated and I love being friends with her. What if she feels the same? Should we go out? Im not sure I want that.
But seriously, shes like this amazing person, even if she is a bit "typical" sometimes, its just wicked having her as a friend. But like I think im starting to go back into old ways, and damn we are leaving and Im finding it hard to come to terms with that.
And now, I can see us slowly drifting away and stuff, and its happening right in front of me and its like why? A part of me (and this sounds big-headed) thinks that shes trying to shut me out.
To the other anonymous guy, going to sound cheesy but do all you can and keep hoping. If it doesnt work out, dont worry you will find someone else, and you will look back like oh remember that girl?
Reply 7
And... what does that matter. My best friend of seven years told me i could do better. She also added that if i was happy she was happy for me, but that's besides the point.
If you feel for this girl.. think about how much you like her.. as much as you say you do? What do other people matter, if you're happy?
If you feel for this girl.. think about how much you like her.. as much as you say you do? What do other people matter, if you're happy?
Reply 8
If you like her as much as you say you do then I think your either going to have to go for it with her otherwise you'l be left always wondering what if. Yes, it will suck if you spill all your innermost feelings to her and she rejects you like a slap in the face but what if she doesn't? What if she feels the same? Life is all about taking chances and risking your neck, otherwise you end up meerly existing and not living. If you never ask then you will never know and that cna be more painful than rejection.
Reply 9
You obviously like her! It doesn't matter what people say as long as your happy tell her and you'll be as happy as larry!! (lucky larry)
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Well like before, loads of people used to tell me I could do so much better and I was like um..ok.
I cant tell her all this, its make everything all complicated and I love being friends with her. What if she feels the same? Should we go out? Im not sure I want that.
But seriously, shes like this amazing person, even if she is a bit "typical" sometimes, its just wicked having her as a friend. But like I think im starting to go back into old ways, and damn we are leaving and Im finding it hard to come to terms with that.
And now, I can see us slowly drifting away and stuff, and its happening right in front of me and its like why? A part of me (and this sounds big-headed) thinks that shes trying to shut me out.
I cant tell her all this, its make everything all complicated and I love being friends with her. What if she feels the same? Should we go out? Im not sure I want that.
But seriously, shes like this amazing person, even if she is a bit "typical" sometimes, its just wicked having her as a friend. But like I think im starting to go back into old ways, and damn we are leaving and Im finding it hard to come to terms with that.
And now, I can see us slowly drifting away and stuff, and its happening right in front of me and its like why? A part of me (and this sounds big-headed) thinks that shes trying to shut me out.
Leaving school makes drifting away inevitable really. You'll probably be able to see each other in the holidays if all your schoolfriends meet up, which they probably will.
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