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Sometimes i just dont feel good enough for her :(

So my girl is absolutely amazing. Shes so clever (gona get a 1st this year), shes so talented (plays for chelsea ladies going to the world cup and olympics) has literally hundreds of medals ( from singing,ice skating, breakdancing competitions) and shes been in movies and finalist on a pop idol show, has an album coming out and shes so beautiful and what have i done? Absolutely nothing :frown: And shes very wealthy has nice houses, cars etc and im just a normal guy living on a council estate lower class etc. So many guys want to go out with her, including top footballers, royalty and basically very rich and successful people. And I just feel like she could do so much better than me :frown:
So yh any views welcome.

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Reply 1

Who is she? I'm intrigued.


But like lessthanthree said, paranoia is a passion killer. If you continue to question why she is with you, she will start. Just be happy that you have the girl all the others want.

Reply 2

Anonymous
So my girl is absolutely amazing. Shes so clever (gona get a 1st this year), shes so talented (plays for chelsea ladies going to the world cup and olympics) has literally hundreds of medals ( from singing,ice skating, breakdancing competitions) and shes been in movies and finalist on a pop idol show, has an album coming out and shes so beautiful and what have i done? Absolutely nothing :frown: And shes very wealthy has nice houses, cars etc and im just a normal guy living on a council estate lower class etc. So many guys want to go out with her, including top footballers, royalty and basically very rich and successful people. And I just feel like she could do so much better than me :frown:
So yh any views welcome.

If you tell her this/act like you believe this there is a fairly good chance she'll start to agree with you...

Reply 3

Ginger_Rogers
Who is she? I'm intrigued


me too! tell!

Reply 4

you have to spill- feel great that she chose you! you obv have something amazing to offer even if its not talents (even though im sure you have many). Your a lucky guy, dont forget it! :smile:

Reply 5

Don't drive her away with your insecurities, enjoy what you have with this girl, she obviously likes you!

Reply 6

You obviously have something that stands out! Don't be paranoid and be happy:biggrin:

Reply 7

I call troll....

If not; she's with YOU because she likes/loves YOU. There's something in you that she finds attractive, so why worry?

Reply 8

I was just horribly sad and looked at the list of players for Chelsea Ladies. I didn't recognise any as finalists from Pop Idol style shows?

Reply 9

nik87
I call troll....

Damn...I was about to say that!

What an all round multitalented girl! lol

Reply 10

There's no Chelsea Ladies players that were a pop idol finalist, so I'm near enough suspecting you're a troll. Bottom line of the story is, stop making singer, actress, athletic, world cup, olympic, royal, famous, dancing, rich girlfriends up.

Reply 11

LaurenFah
There's no Chelsea Ladies players that were a pop idol finalist, so I'm near enough suspecting you're a troll. Bottom line of the story is, stop making singer, actress, athletic, world cup, olympic, royal, famous, dancing, rich girlfriends up.

It's possible, she might be in the reserves/2nds, or might not be in the first 11 etc..

Whatever :biggrin: Not gonna give any advice yet.

..shauny

Reply 12

im guessing shes with you for a reason and your insecurity probably drives you mad, she probably wonders why the hell you cant see in you what she sees in you and wishes you could

Reply 13

Maybe she like a bit of rough - some posh birds are like that.

Maybe she just likes to hit below her target like I do for security reasons. I would call myself beautiful and clever albeit not rich (got all A's a 2.1 degree and now doing a med degree) but have been known to be with guys with no qualifications, aren't drop dead handsome (rough round the edges type thing)

She possibly like knowing you may feel u are not good enough for her.

Reply 14

and ofcourse there is the possibility that
. .....maybe you are a troll.

Reply 15

Melissa85
I would call myself beautiful and clever albeit not rich


You're quite modest also

Reply 16

lessthanthree
she's very clever and she has lots of men queuing up for her....

..yet she chose you.

I think you've done something right :wink:

paranoia is a passion killer. don't fall into that trap.


Well said !!

Reply 17


she's very clever and she has lots of men queuing up for her....

..yet she chose you.

I think you've done something right

I second that.
She obviously see's alot in you.

I would call myself beautiful and clever albeit not rich

PM me :wink:

Reply 18

lessthanthree
she's very clever and she has lots of men queuing up for her....

..yet she chose you.

I think you've done something right :wink:

paranoia is a passion killer. don't fall into that trap.



I agree with the advice given by Lessthanthree

Reply 19

She sounds a bit spoiled if you ask me!!!

Tbh I think any girl on TSR is capable of achieving what she has achieved, if they came from a rich family.

Most of us are poor students from working/middle class backgrounds :frown:

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