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Meeting guys/girls at the gym

Being a bloke this is obviously aimed more girls but can obviously be reversed. How do girls react to being being talked to by lads in the gym.

I take my gym training very seriously because if i dont then im unlikly to get the job i want, but would always be flattered if a girl came up for a chat to me. However i don't go up to girls in the gym through fear of interupting their sesh, and them not wanting to meet people while they are are working out.

Just looking for some views as since being back home from uni and joinin the local gym have see some girls who i would like to talk to but dont due to the reasons above.

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Reply 1

Mutant
Being a bloke this is obviously aimed more girls but can obviously be reversed. How do girls react to being being talked to by lads in the gym.

I take my gym training very seriously because if i dont then im unlikly to get the job i want, but would always be flattered if a girl came up for a chat to me. However i don't go up to girls in the gym through fear of interupting their sesh, and them not wanting to meet people while they are are working out.

Just looking for some views as since being back home from uni and joinin the local gym have see some girls who i would like to talk to but dont due to the reasons above.


Ha, right.

Reply 2

I like to be on my own when I go to the gym, and I prefer not to have any distractions of people trying to talk to me.

Reply 3

This would be more appropriate in the fitness forum ;yes;

In my opinion, I chose a female-only gym so I would not be chatted up whilst I was trying to work out.

Reply 4

i think its a way of meeting new people so i would be happy if someone came up to me

Reply 5

It depends - I mean if I see my friends I would happily have a banter for a few minutes, but if it's a complete stranger then it would probably annoy me a little because I'd want to get on with my workout. But it would depend completely on what you said/were like- I mean if you're nice and informal I'd like a chat, but as long as no definite 'I'm trying to pull'/use cheesy chat up lines.

However you could follow them out when they've finished and then talk to them! Then you won't be disturbing their workout. Just try not to do it in a stalker-ish fashion :wink:

Reply 6

*Ellen*


However you could follow them out when they've finished and then talk to them! Then you won't be disturbing their workout. Just try not to do it in a stalker-ish fashion :wink:

Yup, that would kinda scare me...

Reply 7

tinkerbellejess
I like to be on my own when I go to the gym, and I prefer not to have any distractions of people trying to talk to me.


Yeah, me too.
Thats why I listen to music when I'm there.

Reply 8

tinkerbellejess
I like to be on my own when I go to the gym, and I prefer not to have any distractions of people trying to talk to me.


Ditto

Reply 9

*Ellen*
It depends - I mean if I see my friends I would happily have a banter for a few minutes, but if it's a complete stranger then it would probably annoy me a little because I'd want to get on with my workout. But it would depend completely on what you said/were like- I mean if you're nice and informal I'd like a chat, but as long as no definite 'I'm trying to pull'/use cheesy chat up lines.

However you could follow them out when they've finished and then talk to them! Then you won't be disturbing their workout. Just try not to do it in a stalker-ish fashion :wink:


lol id be interested to know what on earth people would say to someone once 'following them out' of the gym. i mean the 'you have a good workout' thing really is wrong on so many levels

Reply 10

I had someone try and chat me up repeatedly in the gym. It got old quite fast.

Reply 11

I'd love to be chatted up at the gym! To be honest I'd welcome the interruption and be happy that someone had decided to talk to me whilst looking tired an not exactly my best!

Reply 12

i wouldnt chat up any girl who went to the gym.

Reply 13

The gym is probably a good location to chat girls up. If you can't do the small talk at the water fountain then maybe consider just talking about her workout, maybe pointing out how she could do some of her movements differently (you just have to make sure there isn't a professional guy who comes round and makes you look like a fool by pointing out you're talking rubbish).

I get far too sweaty and end up looking a bit too unfit to bother chatting girls up. I don't think the move of the guy with a soaked t-shirt really works...

Reply 14

to be honest, i myself don't find girls working up a manly sweat in the gym that attractive- i like to think that my girl keeps fit- but i don't think i'd be particularly attracted to seeing her work up a sweat. and therefore i wouldn't chat up a girl in the gym, but i could understand why you might want to, what with tesosterone pumping about, which is normal, though for me personally, i don't think i'd feel the need to chat someone up when they're trying to do bench presses or on the tredmill or something. i think if anything they might be midly pissed off that they don't look more attractive for me.

Reply 15

i'd be thinking "what the hell a cute guy finally talks to me and im all sweaty and gross, **** i better buy some nice work out clothes and do my hair and makeup next time i come to the gym"

and if you workout, i'd probaby initally be attracted to your body (as long as youre not super muscly), and if you're a nice guy (which it seem syou are) i'd be glad to talk to you.

also if you knew stuff about weights and stuff id probably drive you crazy with a bunch of questions :redface:

Reply 16

tigerladie
i think its a way of meeting new people so i would be happy if someone came up to me


*walks up* .......... hello!:biggrin:

Reply 17

Sticky
then maybe consider just talking about her workout, maybe pointing out how she could do some of her movements differently


Please, please don't do this...The girl will realise she was being watched while exercising and that's really disturbing and would make her feel unconfortable. I would hate it if someone did that to me.

Reply 18

Oooh I get so pissed off when people talk to me at the gym. Just leave it. Smile, eye contact and say hi, but don't have full on "hitting on you" conversations, that's just an etiquette no no!

Reply 19

I think perhaps if you just smiled and said Hi to the girl at first, then next time around u see her do the same, get a bit of familiarity goin then after a few weeks approach her after she's left the gym.