Let's talk female orgasm.Watch
We all know girls find it harder to orgasm from sex. I'm not here for tips, just wanted to hear your stories. Girls - how long did it take you to be able to *** from sex? How did it happen? Guys - does it make you anxious when your girl can't ***? Have you ever made someone *** (from sex) for the first time?
Even more interesting: non het. girls - is this issue as prominent in lesbian sex?
I know plenty of bi / lesbian women and it's much the same: penetration alone is enough for some but not for most.
Sometimes my boyfriend would get frustrated that I couldn't orgasm, but sometimes it just wasn't happening.
Ther's a thing I read about, that orgasms at young women is pretty rare and usually a women knows how achieve an orgasm at 25-30. I guess this is just a thing that women has to learn it.
I believe it has a lot to do with the mind, like when I was younger I couldn't even *** through my clit when a guy was inside me because I couldn't concentrate.
You really need to hone in what really turns you on and focus on that. Also finding a guy you don't care about impressing helps lol.
It's completely normal, just make sure that you're open and commutative.
I faked it with my ex a few times and got so deep in the lies that I 'had' (felt obligated to - believe it or not I have a big conscience) to do it every time - I felt so so so guilty and when I finally told him it practically broke us up. Do not do that.
Ageing helps ( sorry )
I was 2 years into a relationship before my partner gave me an orgasm. Plenty of foreplay, take your time, and slow arousal helps. Don't rush into it.... You have all the time in the world!
I hope you find something comforting.