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    I went on a date with this man I met the other day. After dinner we went to watch the sunset and we had our first kiss. We kissed a lot but when his hands found the bottom of my skirt and lifted it a little bit I asked him to stop. Later in the car, we kissed again and his hand went to my knee and started to travel upwards. When I realized he was going right for my underwear, I pulled his hand away and said "stop" in a way I thought was clear. But he took his hand back from mine and dove right back for it. So I jumped and pushed at his hand and this time I was mad, insulted, and disappointed with his actions. The second time he really understood how serious i was. I didn't exit the car right away and he told me how he was sorry that he thought I was just being a tease and was "jokingly" saying no but didn't actually want him to stop. He was very appilogetic and understood exactly how badly he messed up. So he said. Do you think it's possible he made a mistake or do you think he just ignored my wants for his selfish desire?
    Obviously if anything else happens it would instantly be over because I don't believe he should be making that mistake again. My real question is am I being stupid giving him another chance?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I went on a date with this man I met the other day. After dinner we went to watch the sunset and we had our first kiss. We kissed a lot but when his hands found the bottom of my skirt and lifted it a little bit I asked him to stop. Later in the car, we kissed again and his hand went to my knee and started to travel upwards. When I realized he was going right for my underwear, I pulled his hand away and said "stop" in a way I thought was clear. But he took his hand back from mine and dove right back for it. So I jumped and pushed at his hand and this time I was mad, insulted, and disappointed with his actions. The second time he really understood how serious i was. I didn't exit the car right away and he told me how he was sorry that he thought I was just being a tease and was "jokingly" saying no but didn't actually want him to stop. He was very appilogetic and understood exactly how badly he messed up. So he said. Do you think it's possible he made a mistake or do you think he just ignored my wants for his selfish desire?
    Obviously if anything else happens it would instantly be over because I don't believe he should be making that mistake again. My real question is am I being stupid giving him another chance?
    Saying no once should be enough, you shouldn't have to say it twice.
 
 
 
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