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    guys can u answer this, am like size 6, got slim long legs but not too skinny got a bit of meat on them and i have a thigh gap, no hips though but i have a nice fat tight ass, like am worried because im slim with a big bum it doesnt look right.
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    For what particular purpose my dear….?
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    For what particular purpose my dear….?
    what do you mean?
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    dont beg it.
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    (Original post by mariam687)
    dont beg it.
    im not, i have no hip shape and i think it looks weird.
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    nobody cares, everyone loves a good big bum; sir mixalot even made a song devoted to it!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    im not, i have no hip shape and i think it looks weird.

    ok.
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    what do you mean?
    The main purpose of your bum, specifically the buttocks is for sitting. Is your bottom suitable for sitting on? Yes? Good. It's absolutely fine.

    While the general shape may bother you, providing there's nothing actually wrong with it your bottom is most likely okay.
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    We need a better description please
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    what do you mean?
    For what purpose do you want the shape to be OK?

    To facilitate elegant passage through a hedge on the way home after an evening's entertainment?
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    For what purpose do you want the shape to be OK?

    To facilitate elegant passage through a hedge on the way home after an evening's entertainment?
    for guys to find it appealing
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    We need a better description please
    how
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    for guys to find it appealing
    And then what? You rely on your bum to pull guys? In the grand scheme of things guys will find almost any arse somewhat appealing providing it's attached to a women (or a guy if your into that). I'm only speaking for myself here but I don't look at a girl, think her arse is a little off and immediately disregard her. If she has a nice arse then great. All the better. But it's really not something that decides how appealing a girl is for many people.

    Some people like butts. That's fine. If you're getting attention purely for your bottom though then that's potentially the wrong type of attention. If a guy finds it appealing there's nothing wrong with that. If that's the only thing he sees in you it won't last long. Focus on more important stuff to be appealing. Like personality.

    You may not be happy with it but judging from your initial description I bet if you asked for random guys opinion they'd say it were decent.

    If you want to do something about it do it because it bothers you. Not because you don't think guys will find it appealing. Because no disrespect but do you actually know what guys will and won't find appealing? I bet some people would like you fine as you are and any decent guy certainly won't judge you for it.

    Do what makes you happy. If that means toning up so you have a slimmer bottom then great. If that means leaving it as it is then that's also great. But do it for you. Not for guys. Someone will like you either way.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    guys can u answer this, am like size 6, got slim long legs but not too skinny got a bit of meat on them and i have a thigh gap, no hips though but i have a nice fat tight ass, like am worried because im slim with a big bum it doesnt look right.
    If you can fit it in size 6, then it isn't very big.
 
 
 
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