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    Well I have an issue with my best friend. We used to hang out A LOT, almost every day for like about 10 years or so. I know people change and blahblah but anyway. We are 16 and she found a boyfriend and they have been together for a year now. The problem is that she never ever has time for me!! If I call her and ask her to do something with me she always says she's too tired or that she would rather hangout with her boyfriend. It's so frustrating and sad too! The only thing we talk about is school. We used to do a lot of things together but now she does that with the boyfriend so it feels like she doesn't even need me anymore. She keeps telling me i'm important to her and so on but i just want her to understand that she can't keep ignoring me all the time. What should i do?!
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    I would just get new friends. It is very common behaviour. You have told her and she doesnt seem bothered, so I would let her get on with it. When the relaionship ends, she will most likely come blubbing to you. You can then decide if you want to carry it on considering how she treats you.

    The best thing to do is let your friend know how you're feeling and your concerns friendship. It s s really sad that she s forgotten herself it s a really common scenario but you clearly deserve better and if she doesn't value your presence then it s probably best separating yourself and finding new friends .
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