have them both...everyone else is doing it.....(Original post by Anne)
i got myself in abit of a mess.
let me just fill you in a bit of background. i been with a guy for over three and half years but things are not doing to well; i told the guy i want to spilt up even though i love him but i depend on him to much. now am intrested in other blokes yet i still seeing this guy, one of these blokes coming over when he fininsh work but he thinks am single.
****, WHAT I'M I GOING TO DO!
What are the downsides?