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    [QUOTE=F. Poste]It's not selfish to want a guy who's not a ****** who only thinks about himself
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    true, but i had a girlfriend who would go mental if i didn't say 'love you xxx' in every single text or after after every single conversation on the phone
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    (Original post by F. Poste)

    It's a good job I didn't list "confidence"! Don't put yourself down!!

    lol yeah but thats coz its number 6..
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    [QUOTE=John Paul Jones]
    (Original post by F. Poste)
    It's not selfish to want a guy who's not a ****** who only thinks about himself
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    true, but i had a girlfriend who would go mental if i didn't say 'love you xxx' in every single text or after after every single conversation on the phone
    I would go mental as well It's a good job he does

    to start off a relationship, it is the physical appearance, to keep it going, it is the personality

    anyone agree/disagree?
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    (Original post by musicboy)
    It's a lie - this person doen't exist.

    MB
    Not true! That's because a lot of them are subjective- like what I find "interesting" in a person and what it is that makes me physically attracted to someone.
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    (Original post by DazYaZZZ)
    to start off a relationship, it is the physical appearance, to keep it going, it is the personality

    anyone agree/disagree?
    For me the personality starts it as well.
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    (Original post by Adhsur)
    I would go mental as well It's a good job he does


    haha really? it must be the insecurity! if i never said i loved her every time i spoke to her, she'd just go all moody and weird !
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    Not true! That's because a lot of them are subjective- like what I find "interesting" in a person and what it is that makes me physically attracted to someone.

    Sorry, it was just me being bitter about being eternally single.

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    [QUOTE=John Paul Jones]
    (Original post by F. Poste)
    It's not selfish to want a guy who's not a ****** who only thinks about himself
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    true, but i had a girlfriend who would go mental if i didn't say 'love you xxx' in every single text or after after every single conversation on the phone
    Yeah, but I'm nothing like that, and saying that I'd like my boyfriends to be considerate of me doesn't constitute that- what i mean is that i don't want a tosspot who is cruel and completely selfish! not too much to ask for!
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    (Original post by John Paul Jones)
    haha really? it must be the insecurity! if i never said i loved her every time i spoke to her, she'd just go all moody and weird !
    Actually, I don't think I would. It's just because it hasn't happened before. If you are used to someone saying it all the time, and they don't one day you think something is wrong.

    However, if you have never had someone say it then it doenst matter one bit.

    Well, it's got to the point for me where it doesn't really matter much what someone says but rather what they do. And I've had someone do a lot for me in four years
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    Yeah, but I'm nothing like that, and saying that I'd like my boyfriends to be considerate of me doesn't constitute that- what i mean is that i don't want a tosspot who is cruel and completely selfish! not too much to ask for!
    "boyfriendS"?? Maybe you ARE selfish!!!
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    (Original post by Adhsur)
    I'd find it really cool if a guy wasn't afraid to cry at a film or something and didn't attempt to look "manly"...
    I think it's cute when they're touched but try to hide it
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    (Original post by DazYaZZZ)
    to start off a relationship, it is the physical appearance, to keep it going, it is the personality

    anyone agree/disagree?
    Agree to an extent. If you're out clubbing or something then looks first. If it's at college or place of work etc personality comes into the equation. I think physical attraction is what gets the ball rolling so to speak.

    Adhsur even though I've thought very carefully about this I couldn't 'see' a girl if I wasn't physically attracted to her even if she had the best personality in terms of what I like in a girl. Is that wrong?
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    (Original post by Adhsur)
    "boyfriendS"?? Maybe you ARE selfish!!!
    lol thats what i was thinking!
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    (Original post by Adhsur)
    "boyfriendS"?? Maybe you ARE selfish!!!
    lol! Only one at a time, of course..

    (Original post by Furtive)
    Agree to an extent. If you're out clubbing or something then looks first. If it's at college or place of work etc personality comes into the equation. I think physical attraction is what gets the ball rolling so to speak.

    Adhsur even though I've thought very carefully about this I couldn't 'see' a girl if I wasn't physically attracted to her even if she had the best personality in terms of what I like in a girl. Is that wrong?

    yep, its all the chemistry in the head....... that's all it is, everyone in this world will find their partner which is the sweet thing ( well the majority of people anyway )
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    (Original post by Furtive)
    Adhsur even though I've thought very carefully about this I couldn't 'see' a girl if I wasn't physically attracted to her even if she had the best personality in terms of what I like in a girl. Is that wrong?
    To be honest I think beauty in girls seems to be more desirable for men than beauty in guys is desirable for women...

    I think that's because according to me there are loads of good-looking guys but very few who are really good people...so that bit stands out.

    Of course that doesn't mean that I'd go out with someone who had an obesity problem, but I think if there are subtle things that make the person unattractive, those things become insignificant when you fall in love with who they are.

    It's not wrong if you think that way, you're just a different person with different wants and you'll achieve a balance one day.
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    lol! Only one at a time, of course..
    :eek: I sure hope so!!! After that pic for fly by, I don't know WHAT to think
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    I think it's cute when they're touched but try to hide it
    Yeah and I'm sure it's also cute when they break up with you and show no emotion because "they are hiding it" :rolleyes:

    (Original post by Adhsur)
    I think that's because according to me there are loads of good-looking guys but very few who are really good people...so that bit stands out.

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    ummmmm i disagree to that but only to an extent
 
 
 
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