This isn't the 5th week of term by anychance is it?
I get my fair share of suffering during the 3rd week. Formal with old friends tomorrow, should either cheer me up, or distroy me completely... 1 or 0 or metastable.
(* cannot appologise enough for the compsciness *)
You don't have to cuddle anybody if you don't want to. You can attend the whole event and not cuddle a single person. Really. For some people just being in a room filled with strangers in pajamas is a breakthrough.