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    Hi, i am having a lot of problems, i see my teacher as a crush and a dad tbh. I mean i cant control my feelings, i keep crying everytime i think of hi. please dont shout at me but i dont know who i am anymore. i wanna talk to someone close to me about this but im scared they are gonna judge me.
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    The epitome of daddy issues

    Crushes on teachers are normal I've heard but that's what they have to stay as forever - crushes.
    If you really care about this individual you wouldn't do anything to act upon your crush because it could risk him losing his job, ruining his life etc. Also I doubt he'd want to get with a child much younger than him like you. And you'll be embarrassed.

    Talk to Childline, they have a chat option on their website where you can speak to a counsellor who is trained to help you, and no one will ever have to know who you are and what you said
    http://www.childline.org.uk/Talk/Cha...nlineChat.aspx

    or you can call them on 0800 1111

    Good luck
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    im not going to ruin his life its just i really care about him like i cant get him out of my head...

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    The epitome of daddy issues

    Crushes on teachers are normal I've heard but that's what they have to stay as forever - crushes.
    If you really care about this individual you wouldn't do anything to act upon your crush because it could risk him losing his job, ruining his life etc. Also I doubt he'd want to get with a child much younger than him like you. And you'll be embarrassed.

    Talk to Childline, they have a chat option on their website where you can speak to a counsellor who is trained to help you, and no one will ever have to know who you are and what you said
    http://www.childline.org.uk/Talk/Cha...nlineChat.aspx

    or you can call them on 0800 1111

    Good luck
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    (Original post by Saffron123456)
    im not going to ruin his life its just i really care about him like i cant get him out of my head...
    Okay it's fine to have a crush on a teacher as long as you don't act on it it's fine
    Can you get transferred to another class taught by a different teacher? That would create distance and help get over him.
    Perhaps find a boy your age that you like?
    But for real chill, so what if you have a crush on him? Just don't go full fangirl and you'll be fine it's normal.
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    its so hard i just cant get him out of my head, he is so nice to me


    (Original post by z33)
    Okay it's fine to have a crush on a teacher as long as you don't act on it it's fine
    Can you get transferred to another class taught by a different teacher? That would create distance and help get over him.
    Perhaps find a boy your age that you like?
    But for real chill, so what if you have a crush on him? Just don't go full fangirl and you'll be fine it's normal.
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    (Original post by Saffron123456)
    its so hard i just cant get him out of my head, he is so nice to me
    ...um yeh das kind of why I suggested those tips so you can try...^


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