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Hi, i am having a lot of problems, i see my teacher as a crush and a dad tbh. I mean i cant control my feelings, i keep crying everytime i think of hi. please dont shout at me but i dont know who i am anymore. i wanna talk to someone close to me about this but im scared they are gonna judge me.
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The epitome of daddy issues

Crushes on teachers are normal I've heard but that's what they have to stay as forever - crushes.
If you really care about this individual you wouldn't do anything to act upon your crush because it could risk him losing his job, ruining his life etc. Also I doubt he'd want to get with a child much younger than him like you. And you'll be embarrassed.

Talk to Childline, they have a chat option on their website where you can speak to a counsellor who is trained to help you, and no one will ever have to know who you are and what you said
http://www.childline.org.uk/Talk/Cha...nlineChat.aspx

or you can call them on 0800 1111

Good luck
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im not going to ruin his life its just i really care about him like i cant get him out of my head...

(Original post by z33)
The epitome of daddy issues

Crushes on teachers are normal I've heard but that's what they have to stay as forever - crushes.
If you really care about this individual you wouldn't do anything to act upon your crush because it could risk him losing his job, ruining his life etc. Also I doubt he'd want to get with a child much younger than him like you. And you'll be embarrassed.

Talk to Childline, they have a chat option on their website where you can speak to a counsellor who is trained to help you, and no one will ever have to know who you are and what you said
http://www.childline.org.uk/Talk/Cha...nlineChat.aspx

or you can call them on 0800 1111

Good luck
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im not going to ruin his life its just i really care about him like i cant get him out of my head...
Okay it's fine to have a crush on a teacher as long as you don't act on it it's fine
Can you get transferred to another class taught by a different teacher? That would create distance and help get over him.
Perhaps find a boy your age that you like?
But for real chill, so what if you have a crush on him? Just don't go full fangirl and you'll be fine it's normal.
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its so hard i just cant get him out of my head, he is so nice to me


(Original post by z33)
Okay it's fine to have a crush on a teacher as long as you don't act on it it's fine
Can you get transferred to another class taught by a different teacher? That would create distance and help get over him.
Perhaps find a boy your age that you like?
But for real chill, so what if you have a crush on him? Just don't go full fangirl and you'll be fine it's normal.
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its so hard i just cant get him out of my head, he is so nice to me
...um yeh das kind of why I suggested those tips so you can try...^


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