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ive never had this problem before but im so confused. say u ask a girl u lyk out and u go out alone. but lyk, that dont mean ur her boyfriend. what should i do for her to become my girlfriend. :confused:

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The first step is to spell the word 'like' correctly ;yes;

Second step...ready for it...'will you be my girlfriend?' :eek2:

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sonic23

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bunthulhu

The first step is to spell the word 'like' correctly ;yes;

Second step...ready for it...'will you be my girlfriend?' :eek2:

You don't understand how stupid that sounds.

Reply 4

brak3n

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Cheesey romantic questions like that are necessary sometime, and can result in warm, happy smiles :smile:

Darez you to do it :p:

Reply 5

bunthulhu

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sonic23

You don't understand how stupid that sounds.

It won't sound stupid if you don't say it in a stupid way.

If you want her to be categorically, 100% officially your girlfriend, you can't exactly ask much differently to that :rolleyes:

To be honest, in my past experience, it's just a natural progression, but if you want to hurry it along...

Reply 6

Dionysus

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Just take her for a meal, talk to her a lot - about her of course, walk her home and see if she wants a snog. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, you're probably too young for a proper girlfriend. You've got plenty of time yet.

Reply 7

Peter North

Give her 20p, so she can ring her momma, and tell her to say that she wont be coming home tonight.

Reply 8

Paperfolders57

sonic23

You don't understand how stupid that sounds.

how can it sound that stupid , be polite and treat her to some food/drink , cinerma etc!!

Reply 9

DaChronik

sonic23

ive never had this problem before but im so confused. say u ask a girl u lyk out and u go out alone. but lyk, that dont mean ur her boyfriend. what should i do for her to become my girlfriend. :confused:

Bruv... It aint hard... "Will you be my girl?" Im sure shell get the idea...

Reply 10

Annoymous

Another idea for a poll. How many of you (guys) would do this on the first date [provided you like her enough to ask this, of course]?

Reply 11

Wez

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bunthulhu

Second step...ready for it...'will you be my girlfriend?' :eek2:

Not sure why, but that reminds me of this.

Sometimes you don't really need to say anything, it's just assumed after a while. Asking someone out always sounds stupid I think. I cringe when I ask someone out and when someone asks me out. I think it's because there's some unbalance of power - usually you're equal, but one person asks the other out, the other gains huge amounts of influence for a few seconds that create awkwardness. Alternatively, the above may have been a load of *******s.

Reply 12

DaChronik

Wez

Not sure why, but that reminds me of this

Wtf?! #zomg# lol

How many guys would do what?

Reply 13

Clumsy girlie

My ex just said to me 'Ive had a really nice evening.Wanna go out with me then?' after a nite out. It was a bit cheesy but I got the message lol! And we went out for six months until he turned into a nasty piece of work,he was a prat head. So maybe after all you better not use his method, lol! Good luck x

Reply 14

Louise88

Sometimes it doesn't have to be said, sometimes you just know when you're a couple. She's obviously interested if she agreed to go out with you, just see how it goes.

I mean, I know going up to someone and saying "Will you go out with me?" or "Will you be my girlfriend?" sounds a bit silly, and a little bit immature but if you need to ask, ask. It's straight to the point, you'll get an answer, so where is the harm?

Reply 15

strawberry

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my bf just asked "will you date me?"

Reply 16

ISH

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this is the point where someone digs up Dann's girlfriend application video. I would but I'm tired and going to bed. Night all

Reply 17

tetrahydrocannabinol.

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sonic23

You don't understand how stupid that sounds.

Well, ask a stupid question...

What advice are you seeking? Your question has two answers: ask her out or wait a while and see if she asks you out.

But then you could ask her out. Or you could never go out. Or she might go off you. Or you might go off her. She might meet someone else. You might meet someone else.

Who knows? And with a stupid question like that, who cares?

Reply 18

anjurdsg

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i have a better one - my friend used this :biggrin:

but i really dont suggest you do this on the first date.

ask her "if you could have anything right now what would you want?"

she'll say something probably. doesnt matter what she says.

then ask her "do you know what i want?"

then say "just take a look in the mirror, thats what i want"

so its not a yes or no question.

unless she has an IQ of 64, she'll get the message :biggrin:

Reply 19

Peter North

Ask her if it hurt, she'll say "what", you say "when you fell from heaven"

Works every time

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