Ok so theres a girl at my school and we started talking and I eventually went to her house one night. It was really chilled, her mum was in but she was downstairs while me and this girl were watching movies in the girls room upstairs. Eventually we ended up kissing for a bit and she told me some really personal stuff. At the end I said bye to her and kissed her again and it seemed like everything went great. I popped up to her 2 days later and she seemed really cold and seemed really distant even at school. We dont even speak in school anymore. So a few weeks later I messaged her and asked why she was being distant and she said she simply wants to be friends which im perfectly fine with (even though like i said we act like we dont even know each other now). My question is what could have gone wrong? Also should i try and speak to her again?
Why did she start ignoring me? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 20-05-2016 11:16
- 20-05-2016 11:20
she's probably just confused or weirded out by the situation - don't take it personally
- 20-05-2016 11:34
Take it real slow. Assume that things went too fast for her and her coldness is her way of putting on the brakes emotionally. Give her space, expect nothing from her and if she warms up then that's a bonus.