Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    Ok so theres a girl at my school and we started talking and I eventually went to her house one night. It was really chilled, her mum was in but she was downstairs while me and this girl were watching movies in the girls room upstairs. Eventually we ended up kissing for a bit and she told me some really personal stuff. At the end I said bye to her and kissed her again and it seemed like everything went great. I popped up to her 2 days later and she seemed really cold and seemed really distant even at school. We dont even speak in school anymore. So a few weeks later I messaged her and asked why she was being distant and she said she simply wants to be friends which im perfectly fine with (even though like i said we act like we dont even know each other now). My question is what could have gone wrong? Also should i try and speak to her again?
    • #2
    #2

    she's probably just confused or weirded out by the situation - don't take it personally
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Take it real slow. Assume that things went too fast for her and her coldness is her way of putting on the brakes emotionally. Give her space, expect nothing from her and if she warms up then that's a bonus.
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: May 20, 2016
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    What's your favourite Christmas sweets?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.