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    So after all the talking and flirting she tells me she's with someone lol. We've been talking for a month now. I mean I'd rather not talk to her but what if she does ? If she flirts I was thinking of saying something like, your with someone you shouldnt be like that with me, show some respect for yourself and your partner.

    I mean its been around a month now and she didnt mention anything when I flirted with her. Wtf I just dont understand what happen. Tbh its better that I can move on, as if she's with someone, how can I trust her ?
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    it's a crush fam, its not meant to be mutural, move on, or keep trying
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    Seems like you've answered your own question
    But me saying to her ' you should say that to your boyfriend'. How does that sound I think its weird but very mature and blunt. If I say that it'll be a slap in the face for her. Lol.
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    Aye its a crush bruh. Don't say nun as when there finished she might be urs
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    Fight. Challenge her. The first step is eloping with her BF
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    If you come across as bitter then it will end whatever 'friendship you have. As for flirting while in a relationship, I don't know. A bit is probably okay but anything misleading would be a horrible thing to do.
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    If I were you bruh, I would keep talking to her, but maybe tone down the flirting. When she breaks up with her boyfriend, then bring back the flirting and then maybe you'll get a chance with her
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    If you come across as bitter then it will end whatever 'friendship you have. As for flirting while in a relationship, I don't know. A bit is probably okay but anything misleading would be a horrible thing to do.
    It wasnt a bit thought thats what im saying. If I said to her if your in a relationship you shouldnt say that. She did question her bf when she told me in regards to me knowing, which was weird
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    Nothing much you can do other than be friends but as people have said if you are bitter then this could ruin the friendship.
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    Nothing much you can do other than be friends but as people have said if you are bitter then this could ruin the friendship.
    How do you mean bitter ? Telling her she shouldnt be flirting ? Like I said it wasnt a bit.
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    I dont want to be with her thats the thing, considering she's with someone and she's flirting with me. I posted this in relation to what to say to her.
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    But me saying to her ' you should say that to your boyfriend'. How does that sound I think its weird but very mature and blunt. If I say that it'll be a slap in the face for her. Lol.
    Honestly I don't know. Are you certain she is with someone? She may be just testing you or something. And if she does have a boyfriend then it's totally not cool and quite unfair to the boyfriend. I tend to be quite mature and blunt with vague attitudes. It kinda makes it easier. Up to you, though.

    Btw, I'm a girl so I'm not entirely sure how you may feel about it. Although, I don't understand what the girl may mean either.
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