What's the most boring first date you've had? How did you keep conversations flowing but didn't turn the date into an interview?
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- Thread Starter
- 22-05-2016 11:36
- 22-05-2016 11:40
Tbh I've never had a boring first date. I've had rubbish ones but they were more entertaining than anything.
- 22-05-2016 11:43
He just scoffed the picnic that I paid for and departed. He had the cheek to send me an email later saying he didn't think there was any spark there! Blinking Einstein eh!
- 22-05-2016 11:46
Humour: this can be puns, one liners, references to pop culture/news, pointing out funny stuff you see, dry humour, sarcasm, playful insults or any other form of joking to make each other laugh
Flirting: ofc its the 1st date but you can still be a little bold and compliment what they wore at least and ask
where they got it
when they got it
how they got it etc etc
Interested: Just ask questions about them (since youre in a date youre testing the water after all) and ask about where they learnt stuff, what they do at work/school/holidays
About yourself: A key difference to an interview is you talk about yourself, sure youre asking tons of questions and learning stuff about them but make sure you tell them about you too, it can be done through anecdotes, a little self deprivation or just blatantly saying stuff
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