Im studying in the library, how do i strike a conversation with people i always see but don't know?
My people skills are so bad lol help Watch
- Thread Starter
- 22-05-2016 12:52
- Political Ambassador
- 22-05-2016 12:58
you dont, they go there to studySpoiler:Showbut if you must, just you know, casually ask them what they are studying.
- 22-05-2016 13:04
- 22-05-2016 13:11
Successful conversations rely on a few things, at least for me
Humour: this can be puns, one liners, references to pop culture/news, pointing out funny stuff you see, dry humour, sarcasm, playful insults or any other form of joking to make each other laugh
Flirting: if youre considering them as a romantic intrests you can still be a little bold if its the first convo and compliment what they wore at least and ask where they got it when they got it how they got it etc etc
Interested: Just ask questions about them and ask about where they learnt stuff, what they do at work/school/holidays/studying for
failsafes include asking how they are in general/weekend plans/what they want to do when older but dont talk about the weather ffs
About yourself: Sure youre asking tons of questions and learning stuff about them but make sure you tell them about you too, it can be done through anecdotes, a little self deprivation or just blatantly saying stuff
Last edited by ForestShadow; 22-05-2016 at 13:15.