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    So I work with my crush and we get about a 2 hours together were we can just talk 1 on 1 (This is because we are the only ones working). When I first started working with her we had so much to talk about, but now there is nothing really to talk about apart from what we did in the weak, Game of thrones, movies and just general gossip. During the 2 hours we constantly look at the clock and say 'only ______ left', which I think is just a way of filling a gap of no conversation. It's normally the last 15 minutes of the shift where we have the best conversations, like we don't stop until we leave (we're usually both laughing a lot during these conversations).

    What can I do to make her not bored when talking to me or how can I make more conversation? When I leave work there is always more that I wish I said or said differently but it's too late.

    When we talk there is eye contact that last quite a while, long enough for it to feel awkward so someone ends up looking away. She on her phone a lot, about 20 % of the time, looks like she is texting someone, however when I start talking to her she stops.

    I felt like I had to write this, I guess I just want advice on what to do???
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    hate to break it to you, but I don't think shes interested.
    yeah.
    so.........
    do with that what you will.
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    Well, if you think of things you want to say after you've left work write them down on you phone and the next day while you're at work you can pull it up on your phone, you'll look like you're just looking at your phone - she doesn't have to know what you're looking at, and refresh your memory of those topics. Then bring that up. Even the happiest couples will run out of things to say if they spend hour and hours together every day.
 
 
 
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