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    Ok so I'm friends with this man, I was in a relationship but it ended (apparently I'm not passionate enough and not as keen on sex as him) now we are just friends. We both go to the same sports/leisure club. I went for a run last week with my friend (and some others) she knows us both. One of the girls asked if I was dating and before I could speak my friend butted in and said 'she's been seeing josh' I said not anymore' then she blurted out 'friends with benefits'. I didn't say anything then but was a little tiny bit annoyed but found it a little funny too as its typical of her.. It's how she is though she speaks before she thinks. I told josh my male friend about it expecting him to laugh a bit and to see what he would say but instead he got annoyed and said 'she's no right saying that, I'm going to tell her'. I said 'don't make a big deal of it' he said ' no she needs telling'. So today he took her to one side and told her off, I heard my friend say 'I was joking and she laughed about it'. She saw me after and seemed a little offish she tried to tell me she was joking but I got a little distracted and didn't know what to say. I'm worried about her thinking I'm two faced or something or telling tales. Should I just wait to see if she gets back to me?

    What's your business is your business. You're not two faced for being annoyed that someone has blurted out your current situation
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