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    I'm just so unhappy in my relationship ATM. My girlfriend just doesn't seem to give me any attention anymore, barely makes an effort to talk to me. I just feel like she doesn't care anymore and it's making me feel the same.

    I just don't know if to end it or not because I do really love her a lot, she is such a nice girl and she's an amazing girlfriend when she wants to be. I just don't know if it's the right thing to do, like what if I regret it after?

    We're both not happy with the relationship, we've talked about splitting up before but she burst into tears saying she didn't want to lose me and that she's only happy with me but she acts so different to what she actually says.

    I'm confused, I'm down, I'm upset. I just really don't know what to do anymore. I'm not happy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm just so unhappy in my relationship ATM. My girlfriend just doesn't seem to give me any attention anymore, barely makes an effort to talk to me. I just feel like she doesn't care anymore and it's making me feel the same.

    I just don't know if to end it or not because I do really love her a lot, she is such a nice girl and she's an amazing girlfriend when she wants to be. I just don't know if it's the right thing to do, like what if I regret it after?

    We're both not happy with the relationship, we've talked about splitting up before but she burst into tears saying she didn't want to lose me and that she's only happy with me but she acts so different to what she actually says.

    I'm confused, I'm down, I'm upset. I just really don't know what to do anymore. I'm not happy.
    Instead of sitting here and moaning about it, you should talk to her. Communication is the key.
    ( I expect a few reps for this answer, pay up your daily taxes).
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    ^^ What he said. Talk to her about it. If not, break up.

    You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't put effort into a relationship. I learned that the hard way.
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    You need to talk to her about how you feel and make it clear that it is make or break and you need things to genuinely change. Give her some examples of how you would like things to be and see if she thinks that is reasonable and if not agree on a compromise. For example, do you want her to text you first? how often? do you want longer replies? to see each other more often?
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    I think that you should speak to her and tell her what you feel and that it upsets you that she ignores you. If she doesn't change the way she acts after you spoke,give yourself a break,try to stay friends and keep close and if you both miss each other and feel need/ want to come back to each other ,then do so. There's no reason to be in relationship in which both of you are not really happy
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    I recommend you to talk to her and make it clear. Don't leave these feelings on your own as there are two poeple in the relationship. Have ou break up with her yet?
 
 
 
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