Ok so basically I've known this boy for roughly 3 years now, we come from the same community so I've kinda known him since I've been a child. We started properly talking back in 2013 just as friends and then that same year we both started having feelings for each other although nothing happened.
Over the years me and this guy were literally like best friends, we used to speak about everything all day everyday, and then last august he told me he loved me. I decided to give in and give the relationship a go, it was a beautiful relationship our families knew about each other and everyone approved of this relationship (my family did know his family personally ) and then my best friend and his brother hooked up together (they still are) and it was quite fun actually.
After a while in nov he decided to break up with me saying that he no longer had feelings for me although he's told different stories to everyone.
its now 6 months and i still miss him like crazy, we've not spoke to each other but we've seen eachother numerous times at weddings and stuff.
To make me feel better I've tried dating again but just doesn't fee right. My family still teases me about him which does make things worse..
For reference were both 17.
6 months since we broke up? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 25-05-2016 22:21
- 25-05-2016 23:12
Maybe there is a reason in why he broke up with you. It might be something that involves you or something that might involve something else. When you love someone you don't just fall out of a relationship just like that. My advice: confront him. Be straight up and ask for the real reason he broke up with you. If he tells you then good for you. If he doesn't then don't pressurise him. Give him space and try to distant yourself from him. Remember, people are different so don't expect him to open up to you just like that. If he continues to ignore you then maybe its time for you to move on. It is hard yes i know but remember that life may bless you with another soul who is a whole lot better. Close your eyes, Take a deep breath and let go. And know it is for the best. I wish you the best of luck.
Lots of love,
- 25-05-2016 23:13
Oh and asfor your family tell them you do not like it when they tease you i am sure that they will understand