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    Basically, he posts a lot of stuff on Facebook. Mostly reposts from best of tumblr, science pages, stuff like that (yeah, he shares a LOT). And I noticed that within the past few days, this other girl has been liking a lot of those posts... Some of the posts were also kind of sexual, and she liked them too (I liked them as well. Before her.)...

    She hasn't commented on any of them yet, so I guess that's a good start? But I haven't seen her liking any of his posts before now, so I'm beginning to worry a bit...

    Also, I have never seen him with this girl in real life. Ever. I haven't even seen her alone in real life. I looked at her info on her Facebook page, and apparently she's in the same city as us for university, but she's not actually at our university, so I don't really know how he knows her, because he doesn't really go out to clubs or anything. He basically just goes to the few societies that he joined this year, or he stays in his apartment. So, unless she's a friend of someone who is in one of his societies, I have no idea how they know each other.

    It seems like they're from the same country (he's not from the UK), so maybe they knew each other before then, and it's just a coincidence that they're in the same city now? He's also liked a few of her posts, but not many. Just profile pictures and cover pictures (and he only liked two and didn't leave any comments). He has liked more of my posts, so I guess that's a good sign. I don't know how much she shares though, because I'm not friends with her on Facebook, and actually sending her a friend request would be weird.

    He also never tags her in anything, but he does tag me in stuff. And his relationship status on his about page still says that he's single. But I don't think this other girl has a boyfriend. And she has said that she's interested in men.

    So yeah, what should I do? I kind of want to do something about it, but I should probably just keep out of it. We still message each other every day/every other day, so as far as I can tell, he hasn't lost interest in me, especially seeing as it's not always me who initiates the conversation (it's more or less 50/50). At the moment, I think I should just act like nothing is wrong. And if we do end up getting together next year (he's currently in a different country right now, and will be there for another two or three months, so nothing physical is going to happen until September at the earliest) and this girl is still liking all of his posts, then I'll bring it up.

    So you have discovered that the boy you're stalking has another stalker? Maybe you should join forces and pool your stalking skills?

    You got competition hunna

    whoever calls him out first gets him, whichever one of u have the guts. idk if a guy ( i dont anyway) likes someone clingy unless they know them well enough. your to be relationship, from this info, seems a dead end, but no harm in trying.
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