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Just got into my first relationship. Thinking off ending it already. Am I a ****? watch

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    18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a **** if i end it ?
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    If you can't see yourself waiting until marriage for sex, then it's probably best if you end the relationship instead of leading her on or you being unhappy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a **** if i end it ?
    Just end it if you want to. There's no point in staying in a relationship you're not fully satisfied with/committed to - you're wasting her time and your time too.
    You say that you don't want to pressure her, so you don't seem like a '****' in that respect.
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    (Original post by SinsNotTragedies)
    Just end it if you want to. There's no point in staying in a relationship you're not fully satisfied with/committed to - you're wasting her time and your time too.
    You say that you don't want to pressure her, so you don't seem like a '****' in that respect.
    Are you both muslims?
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    (Original post by robin567)
    Are you both muslims?
    Erm what
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a **** if i end it ?
    Are you both muslims?
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    (Original post by SinsNotTragedies)
    Erm what
    sorry the question was not referring to you
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    you're not a **** if you want sex in a relationship

    if she won't have sex then just end it and don't date a religious girl again duh...
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    (Original post by SinsNotTragedies)
    Erm what
    :lol: it's happening again

    :dontknow: do what you want, OP. I've been with a religious person before and ya know.. they're teenagers too. There might be some compromise between having sex and not doing anything at all.
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    Even on a thread that has nothing to do with Islam, someone has to bring up Muslims.


    This ****ing website...
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    There is an unwritten rule called you are only in a relationship if you have entered or seen the bat cave
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    (Original post by robin567)
    Are you both muslims?
    I'm atheist, she's christian
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a **** if i end it ?
    If you just want sex and not to get married it's unlikely she will uncompromise and she'll understand if you do end it (this is coming from someone with similar world view to your girlfriend)

    Just end it and try to find out what your girlfriend believes in future before getting into a relationship with them
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    Just break up with her and tell her honestly but in a way that doesn't put pressure on her.

    You're not a ****, I don't understand how an atheist with a deeply religious Christian would work out in a relationship anyway.
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    are you sure she definitely wants to wait till marriage because maybe she just wants to wait until you've been together a while. But anyway if she wants to wait and you don't then end it dude
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a **** if i end it ?
    No: being "a ****" would be not ending it.
 
 
 
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