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    I've been suffering from depression for about 4 years now and I've never had a boyfriend in my life. Everyone keeps telling me that 'it's not the right time' for a guy etc and I know I need to focus on my health (which I am doing). I can't help but feel, however, that I need someone else in my life. Most guys that have been interested in me have only been interested in me for 'fun' which to them is just FwB. I'm very untrusting of people and need someone with patience. I can never find any guys that are right for me, or any guys in general. I'm at uni and I've been out to social events, the pub etc but haven't even been approached by a guy. I really don't know what to do. I'm starting to think it might be my vibe or aura, in that I'm just someone people don't want to be around. I would just like the opportunity to mingle with some guys but it doesn't seem to be happening, what can I do????
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    Its about sociability, confidence and numbers. Depression wont make it impossible but you will have a wider number of potentials if you get iit under control.
    Untrusting i'd redirect to being cautious and careful , its a fine balance. Dont lose hope.
 
 
 
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