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    This may sound petty

    I was put with this guy in my placement group along with 2 other girls. And I have a crush on him however I don't act upon it. Right from day one I introduced myself and asked him a question and he completely blanked me..and basically gave me impression he hates me even though he hadn't even spoken to me

    I noticed when this other bubbly girl spoke he would talk back with her but never with me

    It's like he would make a strong effort to avoid me

    It's pretty awkward

    Iv noticed him sometimes look at me but rarely though I know he doesn't like me fair enough but how can someone dislike someone else if the other person hasn't even spoken

    I just get the impression that he looks down on me and I'm not to utter even hello to him

    One time me made me feel really awkward and just basically started a comvo with the other girl and made me feel left out like an idiot

    Ps he's white and I'm brown

    I reckon he hates brown girls
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    Some people are just racist
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    (Original post by shazy2014)
    Some people are just racist
    Lol I thought that too as he only talks to the white girl but we're both medics how can he be racist when he knows he'll have to treat anyone regardless of race etc
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    Sounds like a douche, move on. Plenty more out there. If he's ignoring a person he's never met before he's probably not worth it anyway
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    Doesn't want to know you and doesn't like your presence

    Not everyone will like you, get over it
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    Why do you like him?

    Are you usually shy and quiet? Maybe he just doesn't vibe with those types of people. You should just ask him, I did that before with a stripper girl in my class that assumed I didn't like her we talked it out and it was just a big misunderstanding. How do you know he hates brown girls?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol I thought that too as he only talks to the white girl but we're both medics how can he be racist when he knows he'll have to treat anyone regardless of race etc
    Loooooooool this totally reminds me of this one medic guy who decided to block and ignore me completely because his friends (my ex-friends) told him i was being severely depressed - when we've never even properly talked before.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol I thought that too as he only talks to the white girl but we're both medics how can he be racist when he knows he'll have to treat anyone regardless of race etc
    Try but he still might have a hidden varied opinion, or maybe he'll talk less to the people he'll treat who are from different ethnicities compared to white
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Why do you like him?

    Are you usually shy and quiet? Maybe he just doesn't vibe with those types of people. You should just ask him, I did that before with a stripper girl in my class that assumed I didn't like her we talked it out and it was just a big misunderstanding. How do you know he hates brown girls?
    It's not that I'm sad he doesn't like me it's more that I feel he is looking down on me and yeah I don't say much

    He talks to white people not really any brown girls


    I just had a crush on him that's all thought he looked cute.
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    (Original post by samina_ay)
    Doesn't want to know you and doesn't like your presence

    Not everyone will like you, get over it
    Yeah but how can someone hate you from nothing all my other group work iv been paired with white guys who even thought were not best buddies at least we're receptive ..and friendly
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    (Original post by BWV1007)
    Loooooooool this totally reminds me of this one medic guy who decided to block and ignore me completely because his friends (my ex-friends) told him i was being severely depressed - when we've never even properly talked before.
    Hmm depression I'd a very common thing I wonder how he'll deal with depressed patients in future ...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah but how can someone hate you from nothing all my other group work iv been paired with white guys who even thought were not best buddies at least we're receptive ..and friendly
    Sounds like his own personal problem that we don't know of. Ignore his rudeness
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's not that I'm sad he doesn't like me it's more that I feel he is looking down on me and yeah I don't say much

    He talks to white people not really any brown girls


    I just had a crush on him that's all thought he looked cute.
    You're making assumptions. Just like how you see brown people almost always hanging within their own race, he probably just doesn't vibe with you and feels more comfortable with his own race, same sorry excuse you hear brown and Asian people use.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    You're making assumptions. Just like how you see brown people almost always hanging within their own race, he probably just doesn't vibe with you and feels more comfortable with his own race, same sorry excuse you hear brown and Asian people use.

    He didn't even let me speak with him before giving me strong impression of don't even talk to me or look at me ...I don't like people who look down on others
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    He didn't even let me speak with him before giving me strong impression of don't even talk to me or look at me ...I don't like people who look down on others
    how come you didn't call him out on his rudeness?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This may sound petty

    I was put with this guy in my placement group along with 2 other girls. And I have a crush on him however I don't act upon it. Right from day one I introduced myself and asked him a question and he completely blanked me..and basically gave me impression he hates me even though he hadn't even spoken to me

    I noticed when this other bubbly girl spoke he would talk back with her but never with me

    It's like he would make a strong effort to avoid me

    It's pretty awkward

    Iv noticed him sometimes look at me but rarely though I know he doesn't like me fair enough but how can someone dislike someone else if the other person hasn't even spoken

    I just get the impression that he looks down on me and I'm not to utter even hello to him

    One time me made me feel really awkward and just basically started a comvo with the other girl and made me feel left out like an idiot

    Ps he's white and I'm brown

    I reckon he hates brown girls
    Whoever the guy is...he's not worth ur time..relax if he desnt look at u u don't look at him..you'll fine someone better
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This may sound petty

    I was put with this guy in my placement group along with 2 other girls. And I have a crush on him however I don't act upon it. Right from day one I introduced myself and asked him a question and he completely blanked me..and basically gave me impression he hates me even though he hadn't even spoken to me

    I noticed when this other bubbly girl spoke he would talk back with her but never with me

    It's like he would make a strong effort to avoid me

    It's pretty awkward

    Iv noticed him sometimes look at me but rarely though I know he doesn't like me fair enough but how can someone dislike someone else if the other person hasn't even spoken

    I just get the impression that he looks down on me and I'm not to utter even hello to him

    One time me made me feel really awkward and just basically started a comvo with the other girl and made me feel left out like an idiot

    Ps he's white and I'm brown

    I reckon he hates brown girls
    There's plenty of fish in the sea. I'm sure you'll find someone who likes you for you.
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    (Original post by omer_bawa)
    Whoever the guy is...he's not worth ur time..relax if he desnt look at u u don't look at him..you'll fine someone better
    I don't agree
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    Plenty of girls act like that towards men for many petty reasons, expect the same back
 
 
 
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