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    My girlfriend says she hates condoms and doesn't want me to use them but at same time she refuses to go on the pill.

    I don't mind either way about using a condom each feels good to me sometimes with feels better if shes "too excited" down there and condoms make me last longer.

    Seems to be causing arguments as she says she hates the way condoms feel but I tell her I don't want to risk having a baby.

    I doubt its a honey trap she just prefers it this way.

    We are both late 20s so its not as if she is naive.

    What to do?
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    dont have sex
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    Will she use the implant or coil?
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    There are lots of different contraception options which don't involve the pill - it may be that she's at a high risk of breast cancer and so can't take it. Book an appointment for the two of you at a sexual health clinic and they can discuss the options with you both in order to find what's best for you both.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My girlfriend says she hates condoms and doesn't want me to use them but at same time she refuses to go on the pill.

    I don't mind either way about using a condom each feels good to me sometimes with feels better if shes "too excited" down there and condoms make me last longer.

    Seems to be causing arguments as she says she hates the way condoms feel but I tell her I don't want to risk having a baby.

    I doubt its a honey trap she just prefers it this way.

    We are both late 20s so its not as if she is naive.

    What to do?
    It's ok just abort the baby everytime
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    Sounds to me like her biological clock is ticking. What's her suggestion?
 
 
 
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