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    Long story! I was going out with my ex for 2 years, there were many ups and downs. Great holidays and laughs. Ultimately he was my first love. I decided to end things as we had been long distance for 1year 1/2 and we were constantly arguing and being poor communicators. I broke up with him around two months ago as i didnt think the relationship was healthy for the both of us.
    So fast forward to now, i downloaded tinder and have gone on a multiple dates with a guy. I have also found out my ex has been on a couple of dates with a girl.
    Now that i know he's been on dates its making me question my feelings towards him as its made me really sad. I'm questioning if i'm over him as i havent grieved over our relationship since we split. Or am i just jealous of this new girl as the start of mine and his relationship was so good.
    Does anyone have any advice about getting over relationships? Or have been in similar situations to this?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story! I was going out with my ex for 2 years, there were many ups and downs. Great holidays and laughs. Ultimately he was my first love. I decided to end things as we had been long distance for 1year 1/2 and we were constantly arguing and being poor communicators. I broke up with him around two months ago as i didnt think the relationship was healthy for the both of us.
    So fast forward to now, i downloaded tinder and have gone on a multiple dates with a guy. I have also found out my ex has been on a couple of dates with a girl.
    Now that i know he's been on dates its making me question my feelings towards him as its made me really sad. I'm questioning if i'm over him as i havent grieved over our relationship since we split. Or am i just jealous of this new girl as the start of mine and his relationship was so good.
    Does anyone have any advice about getting over relationships? Or have been in similar situations to this?
    I'd imagine that this would be quite a difficult thing to deal with. I cant say I've been in a similar situation but I sure as hell know what its like when trying to get over someone, I'd say, just carry on going on dates, meeting new guys, youre still obviously going to have feelings for your ex but thinking about him will only make it harder especially as it seems youre still in the process of getting over him. So id say just concentrate on meeting new guys and try and avoid anything regarding anything to do with your ex.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story! I was going out with my ex for 2 years, there were many ups and downs. Great holidays and laughs. Ultimately he was my first love. I decided to end things as we had been long distance for 1year 1/2 and we were constantly arguing and being poor communicators. I broke up with him around two months ago as i didnt think the relationship was healthy for the both of us.
    So fast forward to now, i downloaded tinder and have gone on a multiple dates with a guy. I have also found out my ex has been on a couple of dates with a girl.
    Now that i know he's been on dates its making me question my feelings towards him as its made me really sad. I'm questioning if i'm over him as i havent grieved over our relationship since we split. Or am i just jealous of this new girl as the start of mine and his relationship was so good.
    Does anyone have any advice about getting over relationships? Or have been in similar situations to this?
    Definitely sounds like you are not over your ex if you are upset that he is going on dates with a new girl.
 
 
 
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