Should I stop talking to my crush ?

I used to talk to her and we used to flirt often etc, then she told me she's with someone. So I told her she shouldnt have flirted with me, she apologized and said she didnt realise she was doing it.

Now she's been snapchatting me everyday, like what she's doing and selfies, she doesnt flirt as much tbh. I ignored it for a bit then she questioned it. Now its just annoying. I dont see the point talking to her but dont want to be harsh. I mean we work together I dont want her to say why are you ignoring me.

She snap chats other guys but she doesnt send them selfies or anything. Most say there just friends with her.

But girls will it look bad if I start to ignore her ? I just dont want her to question it or the situation being awkward at work.

Reply 1

Arvin Bhambra

Original post by Anonymous

is she still seeing someone?

Reply 2

shawn_o1

it's her problem and she needs to sort it, if she doesn't, who cares

Reply 3

nju

Just ignore the snapchats and talk to her only about work related topics outside of work and when at work treat her like you treat your other colleagues (e.g. be friendly and have general conversations). This way you won't be ignoring her, just maintaining a good work relationship :smile:

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by nju

What if she wants to talk more ? Lol

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by Arvin Bhambra

is she still seeing someone?

Yes

Reply 6

Arvin Bhambra

Original post by Anonymous

Yes

leave it dont talk to her due to her possibly drawing you in

Reply 7

Elivercury

I'd probably just ignore her outside of work related matters. You clearly have no interest in her except for sexually, otherwise her trying to be friends with you wouldn't be so onerous. So it likely wouldn't work worked out had you gotten together. Consider it a bullet dodged and move on, she'll get the hint eventually.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Arvin Bhambra

leave it dont talk to her due to her possibly drawing you in

She talks to other guys too. Drawing me into what ? liking her more ?

Reply 9

nju

Original post by Anonymous

What if she wants to talk more ? Lol

I assume that you're talking about outside work? Just leave long gaps between your replies and try and end the convo when it's not work related for example don't ask non work related questions unless it's rude not to. Also you could just ignore her non work related messages and reply late only apologising that you were busy but don't actually reply to the content of the ignored message

Reply 10

Arvin Bhambra

Original post by Anonymous

She talks to other guys too. Drawing me into what ? liking her more ?

she will draw u into liking her more

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by shawn_o1

it's her problem and she needs to sort it, if she doesn't, who cares

Whats her problem ?

Reply 12

Elivercury

Original post by Anonymous

Whats her problem ?

He's talking nonsense, I'd ignore him.

She's clearly just friendly and enjoys making friends. You don't want to be friends, that's cool, just don't reply to her non-work stuff and go about your life.

Reply 13

Kay Zin

How about opening up to her that you like her and you have a crush on her?She might want to be with you more. But you don't care her enough and don't give enough time for her. So, she talks with other guys not to feel isolated. My question is Do you Love Her? If so, try to be her official boyfriend and can tell her that you don't like she talks to other guys.