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    My bf tells more things to his female friends than me, he said how one wants to be my best friend and tell me all his secrets. The thing is, shouldn't he tell me them himself? And as a couple, are we suppose to tell each other our secrets? Or should I respect it if he doesn't want to share?
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    My bf tells more things to his female friends than me, he said how one wants to be my best friend and tell me all his secrets. The thing is, shouldn't he tell me them himself? And as a couple, are we suppose to tell each other our secrets? Or should I respect it if he doesn't want to share?
    I think you should sit down and talk to him about this, try communicating how you feel about this and see what he says.

    As a couple, well, yeah it would be best to have things out in the open right? and be honest?

    If you trust him, then leave him be.
    If he normally tells you things then, ask him why he's not telling you, if he doesn't tell you then respect his decision for that, it be better that way, if that makes sense?

    Hope it helps :hugs:
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    As a couple there should be no secrets in the relationship. You should be open and comfortable enough to talk about anything and everything with each other!
 
 
 
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