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    Hey dudes and girls,

    So basically I've been dating this girl for a couple of months,
    I actually wasn't going to ask her out or something and just be friends but she asked me and I thought I'd try it,

    So in summary, I've got a week holiday and I've been watching all these romantic movies (titanic, the notebook, and like LITTERALLY every romantic movie there is) and I do not feel even 1 percent of what Leonardo Dicaprio felt for Kate or what Ryan Gosling felt for that other girl. Idk sometimes I even forget I have a girlfriend and forget to respond to her messages.

    She is pretty but I find her annoying at most times and she acts very childish and seeks TOO much attention in ... not so nice ways

    She is pushy and gives me no space, expects me to not have a life just to chill with her - she was pissed off cause I couldn't go to the movies because I had a doctor's appointment

    Like right now whilst I'm writing this post I am texting her on that whatsapp pop-up screen and she wants me to call so I asked her if she could call cause I am doing something on an app and can't change it
    SHE GOT PISSED OFF

    So the question from me is is this freaking normal because if it is I want to just keep watching romantics my entire life and marry Netflix
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    Hey dudes and girls,

    So basically I've been dating this girl for a couple of months,
    I actually wasn't going to ask her out or something and just be friends but she asked me and I thought I'd try it,

    So in summary, I've got a week holiday and I've been watching all these romantic movies (titanic, the notebook, and like LITTERALLY every romantic movie there is) and I do not feel even 1 percent of what Leonardo Dicaprio felt for Kate or what Ryan Gosling felt for that other girl. Idk sometimes I even forget I have a girlfriend and forget to respond to her messages.

    She is pretty but I find her annoying at most times and she acts very childish and seeks TOO much attention in ... not so nice ways

    She is pushy and gives me no space, expects me to not have a life just to chill with her - she was pissed off cause I couldn't go to the movies because I had a doctor's appointment

    Like right now whilst I'm writing this post I am texting her on that whatsapp pop-up screen and she wants me to call so I asked her if she could call cause I am doing something on an app and can't change it
    SHE GOT PISSED OFF

    So the question from me is is this freaking normal because if it is I want to just keep watching romantics my entire life and marry Netflix
    It doesn't sound like you have a healthy relationship with her, to be honest. From your point of view, it seems like she is really clingy and is taking the fun and 'love' out of a relationship, and you know, if you're forgetting that you have a girlfriend.. maybe she isn't the one for you.

    And as for whether love should be like in the movies... :iiam: just remember that they are scripted.
 
 
 
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