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I've just finished my first year at Nott trent and don't know what to do. The course is ok, its not a bad city, but i don't know if i really fit in. Most of my friends there turned out to be backstabbers and I spent a lot of the year unhappy
I've done well this year, I hadn't even been planning on going to uni in the first place due to really bad depression during A levels which meant I did really badly, so i was just so happy to be let in somewehere. I've explained that I wasn't really happy to my tutors, n they've given me a reference for a transfer to Reading. But I'd be starting there in second year and I don't know anyone or the place.
Nottingham is only a couple of hours away from home so i come home often to see my boyf n he comes to see me, which is an advantage, as Reading is so far away.
what should I do? Should I stick to what I know n ride out the next couple of years? Or should I take up the offer Readings given me?
Its really making me stressed n unhappy
Thanks for replying people its nice to know people do care
yeah the course is the same, history and sociology. I've got a house for next year which would need to be sorted too
what did you get in your a levels?
My ABC(A2s) and AA(AS's) turned into DD and BC ( i had to drop business studies cause i was just too ill to go to college). I've explained this to Reading and they think I'm fully capable, but I'm still unsure..
Now, a transfer may be good, but what if you find it difficult to fit in? As you already said, everyone would already have friends and stuff, so you may end up being more depressed about this. There will be new surroundings, you will be firther from your BF, and everything will feel new again.
If I were you, I would try and iron out any problems you are having currently, there is ALWAYS the opportunity to make new friends, you seem like a nice person, so just rise above the immature people you speak about.
I'm still not sure what i'm gonna do but I do feel better now