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    I mean, long story short, boyfriend liked someone and she kinda liked him too but it didn't work out.

    She is very pretty (like honestly, 10/10 lol), so it makes me feel horrible. My BF has said before to me that she's a very rare case where someone is a 10 but her personality was crap so it doesn't even matter. I'm... Alright looking. Recently we had a huge discussion about this so he is now a bit more careful about how he talks about other women. Finally hit him that I have feelings hahhahaha

    Anyway, I just feel so ugly compared to her. Like so ugly. Sometimes I will do my hair or make up a bit like hers and it DOES make a difference in how attractive he finds me. I suppose it's handy, but it also depresses me. I should probably stop doing it

    I don't really know what I'm asking from you guys but I think I just want some tips of how to stop feeling horrible
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I mean, long story short, boyfriend liked someone and she kinda liked him too but it didn't work out.

    She is very pretty (like honestly, 10/10 lol), so it makes me feel horrible. My BF has said before to me that she's a very rare case where someone is a 10 but her personality was crap so it doesn't even matter. I'm... Alright looking. Recently we had a huge discussion about this so he is now a bit more careful about how he talks about other women. Finally hit him that I have feelings hahhahaha

    Anyway, I just feel so ugly compared to her. Like so ugly. Sometimes I will do my hair or make up a bit like hers and it DOES make a difference in how attractive he finds me. I suppose it's handy, but it also depresses me. I should probably stop doing it

    I don't really know what I'm asking from you guys but I think I just want some tips of how to stop feeling horrible
    I don't mean for this to sound harsh but I suppose you want be told that you're beautiful, which obviously can't happen because I have no idea what you look like. The important thing is that your boyfriend said, she has a horrible personality and anyway you're the one he's in a relationship with, not her, so just remember that
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    How old are you OP?
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    (Original post by GlassyMarbles)
    I don't mean for this to sound harsh but I suppose you want be told that you're beautiful, which obviously can't happen because I have no idea what you look like. The important thing is that your boyfriend said, she has a horrible personality and anyway you're the one he's in a relationship with, not her, so just remember that
    Haha no I don't want to be called beautiful by people I don't know it's fine lol. Just don't know how to deal w this tbh. And yeah that's what he says too he's in a rs with ME, but if she ever even slightly comes up in a conversation abt other friends or something, he'll end up discussing her again n again. At the end of the day what he tells me just sounds like "you're a bit ugly BUT you have a nice personality" which as nice as it is is just a bit weird when your own BF says it



    (Original post by eden3)
    How old are you OP?
    I'm acting immature but I'm almost 20 lmao a big baby rly
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I mean, long story short, boyfriend liked someone and she kinda liked him too but it didn't work out.

    She is very pretty (like honestly, 10/10 lol), so it makes me feel horrible. My BF has said before to me that she's a very rare case where someone is a 10 but her personality was crap so it doesn't even matter. I'm... Alright looking. Recently we had a huge discussion about this so he is now a bit more careful about how he talks about other women. Finally hit him that I have feelings hahhahaha

    Anyway, I just feel so ugly compared to her. Like so ugly. Sometimes I will do my hair or make up a bit like hers and it DOES make a difference in how attractive he finds me. I suppose it's handy, but it also depresses me. I should probably stop doing it

    I don't really know what I'm asking from you guys but I think I just want some tips of how to stop feeling horrible
    Its rare to find a girl whos 10/10 and good personality, same for guys.
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    I mean he is with you.


    No reason to be jealous of someone he broke up with.

    She may have been better looking than you, but that's all she had to offer apparently; while you have a personality that he likes too.
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    Another classic case of female overthinking/overanalysing....
 
 
 
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