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Should I fight my toxic feelings or just give up Watch

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    I grew up in a very ****ed up family
    My mum is very abusive towards my dad, mentally physically financially not to mention the open cheating

    The problem is I started to like someone who reminds me of my mum, she's a real nut case like her

    It made me feel terrible and I realised something was wrong with me, so I started a healthy relationship with a really Nice girl

    But the other girl is still rife in my head
    It's like OCD

    I feel like I'm fighting nature, it would be so much easier to give up and go back to this toxic girl

    Is this worth fighting?
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    (Original post by Mvpmb)
    I grew up in a very ****ed up family
    My mum is very abusive towards my dad, mentally physically financially not to mention the open cheating

    The problem is I started to like someone who reminds me of my mum, she's a real nut case like her

    It made me feel terrible and I realised something was wrong with me, so I started a healthy relationship with a really Nice girl

    But the other girl is still rife in my head
    It's like OCD

    I feel like I'm fighting nature, it would be so much easier to give up and go back to this toxic girl

    Is this worth fighting?
    If so
    How do I get over my OCD
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    give up on both of them. love yourself first.
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    give up on both of them. love yourself first.
    Would be a bit harsh to give up on the new girl so quickly , she's not hurting me or stopping me from loving my self
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    (Original post by Mvpmb)
    I grew up in a very ****ed up family
    My mum is very abusive towards my dad, mentally physically financially not to mention the open cheating

    The problem is I started to like someone who reminds me of my mum, she's a real nut case like her

    It made me feel terrible and I realised something was wrong with me, so I started a healthy relationship with a really Nice girl

    But the other girl is still rife in my head
    It's like OCD

    I feel like I'm fighting nature, it would be so much easier to give up and go back to this toxic girl

    Is this worth fighting?
    Ohhh no biggy, I'm always fighting nature. Yes its worth fighting, it will improve your confidence/pride and make you open more gates the older you get.
 
 
 
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